“Likely a result of abuse and poor parenting”Nobody has to scan the internet. And also, those are not memes but reposts of some moron or mentally unstable person who originally posted that in the first place. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes and be ridiculed.
And yes, any argument that says male born trans do not have a physical advantage over females is a weak argument. It is cheating whether you admit it or not.
We have had two female-to-male players on my DD team over the years. I actually almost got into a fight with an opposing parent because of his insensitive remarks towards one of these players. Here is the difference though. She (he) plays on an elite level girls team because she was only able to make the 3rd team. This is the case for most, especially as they age. Extremely rare cases like Alyssa Thompson and Mia Gyua were able to play on the Boys side at later ages. Males have 99.9999999999999999999% worries about a F2M player affecting them, but when you put the shoe on the other foot, females are impacted at least 10 fold.
This issue is more about protecting our young females from being robbed of competing against equal competition and not the feelings of those children with mental health problems that are likely a result of abuse and poor parenting. To expand on that, the Trans population, if we take the upper end is 0.75%. To stack on top of that, trans athletes probably account 10% of that tiny population. At most we are probably talking 1 female per 1,000 females that play a sport.
In return, supporters of this idealogy, want to allow outright cheating, alienating of many others around, all setting a dangerous precedent where it is ok to lie and cheat.
For the sake of debate, if I decided I identified as a black person when I was 18, by these standards, I would be able to start a minority business and profit massively as white man through lying and cheating (even though act ignorant to that fact) even though identify as Black. Meanwhile, I am getting more opportunities than genetic Blacks because I am white, AN UNFAIR ADVANTAGE.
Not sure if you watched “You People” on Netflix yet, a great movie btw, there is a scene at the rehearsal dinner between Jonah Hill and Eddie Murphy. The end of the sequence ends in I know an asshole when I see one. You are that asshole.
you realize of course this is exactly the scumbag shittakery Eotl does. During the pandemic (yes I took names and no it won’t ever be forgiven) many of us were warning about the consequences of shutting schools and sports which we were sadly proven right about several times over. Eotl attacked my parenting and said I was responsible for my kid not being able to cope.
my Extended family has a ftm in it. I can most assuredly tell you his parents are some of the finest people out there, are better than my parents, did everything they could for their kids, and even sent him onto Princeton (come back to me when we hear where your all kids went to school). What happened to their kid had nothing to do with them any more than my kids adhd has anything to do with me. What’s more is I take personal offense to this as it’s the same kind of shittakery that was done to gay people: they must have been abused by the parents or something to turn out that way. As anyone who has ever had a black sheep child that turned to drugs or alcohol can tell you, sometimes it’s the way the kid is wired. Hey, maybe we can start blaming those kids in danger of being moved down because of mtf s because their parents didn’t take their soccer careers serious enough! Why didn’t they get Hgh, soccer trainers, supplements and peds! How dare you put your kid in a position where they are threatened as a mediocre player like this!
you have a good heart for standing up for your dd teammate. But you are showing some bias here. I hope you’ll have more foresight in dealing with it than dad 4 has shown and that the karma spirits are more kind with you on this one than what you’ve shown to parents who are dealing with a horror like this.