Uh, when you claim that people aren't giving you the courtesy of "listening to their argument and evaluating it on its own merits", what you really mean is that "people aren't agreeing with my bs". The reality is we did evaluate your arguments, recognized the ones that weren't complete bs, discarded the ones that were, and decided like ECNL, CIF and others that they are outweighed by the legitimate arguments that support trans participation in youth sport. The fact that you can't even recognize the reasons the ECNL and CIF claim support trans participation are even legitimate opinions to have pretty clearly establishes that you lack self-awareness and that you're the only one who isn't willing to listen. To date, you have not even conceded that a single reason that ECNL and CIF have made to is even a legitimate one to have.
BTW, I listened to your argument that we owe Nazi's the courtesy of listening to why jews should be exterminated, evaluated it on its merits, and decided it is bs. I guess I'm not surprised that you're taking the position that people should listen to Nazis, though, given that you share many of the same values including about what to do about trans children. Do you also want to dump them into the incinerator because you're scared one of them might deprive your soccer playing daughter of a trophy, or is that too far for you?