Outside of my wheel house. What you seem to be asking is try to help people feel more comfortable the way they were born. The experts are really split on this. On the one hand, some people are very happy that have transitioned and are helped. On the other hand, some people regret it and some have even detransitioned. If we were to follow dad4's usual line, we have to trust the experts and what they think the best course of treatment is (sorry...I just think it's really funny he's antiexpert in all this). Regardless, for someone to take those steps and upend their life like that (in some cases severing ties with parents or upending marriages), you gotta believe it's a serious problem. There is sadly in these cases no really good solution as even transitioning isn't perfect (you are never going to make a male a biological female or vice versa...it's just not possible).Gender Dysphoria sounds awful and anyone experiencing it, adult or minor, needs a safe place to find solutions that are appropriate to that individual alone.
Based upon this thread, it seems like the broader problem is society trying to ‘fix’ things either medically first or structurally to accommodate medical interventions.
Shouldn’t the focus be providing safe spaces for those that need it and helping individuals feel comfortable in their own skin first and foremost?
I'd be careful with the argument, though. It sounds an awful lot like the arguments made against gays several decades back. Shouldn't we focus on treating the condition first and foremost and making them normal men, instead of accommodating their urges and life styles?