If you're looking at bronze games in East SJ or the CV, that's a completely different culture. But a ftm would not be welcome on a girl's team in those areas, either.Move the bar much? You said come to NorCal, and it doesn't happen, because you'd get a red card. I said it happens all the time. Who is closer to accurate?
The only ftm I've seen are all in letter leagues, and all based on rich cities. So let's talk about what they would face if they were at the same club, but on a boy's team.