@Emma and
@happy9 I guess we have a different definition of whining which is ok, sounds like whining to me maybe not to others. I get that. Sure there is healthy conversation about it. The biggest difference between soccer in the US and the majority of the rest of the world is soccer is the #1 sport, where here it #5 behind the NFL, MLB, NBA, and NHL...its not even close from a revenue perspective $1.2B for MLS and $4.7B for Hockey at #4. Its going to be a long-time before Soccer cracks the top 4. For the 5th rated sport in this country, which we all love because we post, read, spend time here, we played or our kids play(ed), etc...soccer does not grab the attention of the masses on a day-to-day basis like the other sports (Olympics/WC/Big Tournaments are the exception), or garner the same advertising revenue as the ohers...that is why it is 5th. Nobody is going to pump money to remove a pay-to-play system unless there is a financial return to it. NWSL is struggling, MLS is doing well, but can't support an Academy System yet on both the Boys and Girls side, i.e. Earthquakes and LAG. Why should they pay when the parents will? It's all pay-to-play. Somebody always pays. Nothing is free. As long as there are families that have disposable income to support a sport/activity/hobby their kids enjoy there will be organizations that will gladly take it.
Look at the movement of players going to Europe especially on the Women's side....Lots of men's and women's players going overseas. They do soccer better around the world because it is the top dog, soccer here is the 5th choice $$$ wise. The women's game is picking up world wide, and the Women's EPL will be Top Dog soon. Why are other countries better than us on the men's side? Most of the best male athletes in the US choose other sports that are more lucrative. They do not choose soccer, many of our best athletes do not play...ever watched Chad Johnson (Ochocinco) play soccer and fool around? A lot of these guys could or would have been really great soccer players. Women's side is different. The US dominates here (now...but the world is gaining) because many of the best female athletes do choose soccer.
I love soccer, I enjoyed playing, it is a great game, fun to watch, and I enjoy watching a good match-up in the EPL, Budesliga, La Liga, Liga MX, MLS, etc.... I also enjoy watching the Cowboys (no judgement please), Mavericks, Stars, and Rangers play as those are my hometown teams. As much as I love soccer, I will watch the the Cowboys play over all of them. Only games/events that supersede the Cowboys game are my DD's games and events (glad DTV can record). Soccer is not part of our culture like it is in other countries.
I guess my point is pay-to-play is not going anywhere anytime soon, it's going to be here a while. Wishing soccer to be something it is not in this country is not going to get us far. Improve and build on what we do have...How do you make the current pay-to-play model better?