If your child is a GOAT, they won’t need to be paying $3k a year. Any coach would take a GOAT and give them a scholarship. Find them a ride to practice, games, etc. There is truly no excuse. The only players being left out are the ones not good enough. This is all a myth. I challenge any of you to find me a true GOAT, right now, that is not playing because the parents can’t afford it. I know players that were GOATS at U8, were the fastest and biggest, and they never got the training and are no longer playing. Players drop off and become obsolete, doesn’t mean they were too poor to afford good training.
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Practice is 1.5 hours. I wonder what these girls are doing the rest of the afternoon/evening.
Good luck handling college soccer and school at the same time.
All these dudes do is complain. That’s why their kids don’t get far in the sport.
I told my kids they dont have to go to college ever since they were born. Pro is always an option if you work hard at your pro craft. Kobe did it. Mike Trout did it. Messi did it and so did all the other greats. However, I also told them all the facts if you have a degree and all that. My dd just wanted to play soccer when she was 12-14. Just soccer. Too early pushing college on 7th graders. ECNL is a great league for 9th graders and olders.
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That's assuming she plays college soccer. I'd rather her go into college for grades. Soccer will not sustain her for life. Just my .2.
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Thanks! I'll be sure to tell her you wish her nothing but the best, as I do for you DD/DS.
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I was once a co team manager for a group of 2003 boys. My son was in the team because he had some skill but we had the money. These Latino boys were in the team because Pats Partially funded most of them. The parents couldn’t afford more than $800 per season. A few of us parents ended paying more than our share to help out.
Some of these kids made it to the pats academy but the Travel distance and time Off work that it took for parents to drive was too much.
Some couldn’t make it to games outside of SoCal due to travel expenses. We would pay for a couple of hotel rooms and put 6 in a room. Lol.
This flight 1 team beat well funded discovery 1 teams in the area. Unfortunately this team didn’t have the money to pay for $1k college scout tournaments or other elite events. My son dropped out because he couldn’t hang with this talent. There are so many kids out there that just don’t have the resources.
How do you think these kids become goats and get offered scholarships? It comes thru training and hard work first. Which cost money or parental time away from work (also monetary). I've seen plenty of very fast, athletic, coordinated kids, stellar at 7 and 8 years old, get completely lost in a 9 v 9 and 11 v 11 game because they didn't have the same amount of training or parental commitment due to work or financial limits.
I've seen parents put kids in clubs on a scholarship and still can't get their kids to practice bc no one on the team lives nearby to drive to the top clubs and the kids end up dropping club soccer.
Hallie Mace is a GOAT and her parents were not able to put her in Eagles until her senior year in high school. Lucky for them, they were financially well off enough to put her in a local cheap club to develop. She doesn't quite have the foot skills some of the Goats have bc she wasn't able to develop it at a young age. Imagine if she could afford to develop those foot skills at an earlier age, how much better she would even be today.
I've seen plenty of parents get surprised when their 10 year old goat looks like a donkey at 17 when a multi sport, fully developed athlete like
I've heard from several ECNL coaches that the Great Park of Irvine is a great spot to hold practices because most of the kids with money are located in South OC. One thing is the fee and the other the travel cost. Not too many parents have the finances to take their kids to play in Utah, Las Vegas, AZ, every other weekend. Then you add trips to the East Coast in the summer.
Why not keep the best players at Flight 1 and have them play against each other every weekend locally. You can have an All Star team that gets to practice every other week and they get to travel in the summer for a couple of tournaments.
Alex Morgan says pay-to-play is hurting soccer in the US. Is she right?
The USA striker thinks the model for young players in America is broken. But figures such as MLS commissioner Don Garber disagreewww.theguardian.com
The above article has some really good information to make this point of pay to play.
1 A recent survey claimed young players from households earning less than $25,000 a year amounted to just 11% of boys and girls in registered clubs, compared to 35% in households bringing in over $100,000.
Didn't Alex Morgan play for a time with WCFC?
your third employer, have you not paid attention?
I get it. But now you’re saying “what could have been if they had the training.” That’s true for many things, not just soccer. The point is none of these players deserve a free ride now, and that’s that.
How about saying the truth. She’s talented just like 1000’s of other kids. But she’s not a GOAT. Only GOAT’s get free rides.
Half hour there, half hour home, it now becomes 2.5 hours. If your kid is doing it right, they have five classes that have homework, some AP classes, some Honors and you have a lot of homework. Add in dinner and a shower and you have very little free time if any. That is what they are doing.
I wish I could tell you what I go through. But I wont. It’s a matter of priorities and if you REALLY want it. However, I respect your point of view and I truly do get it. Just saying, some people travel WAY MORE than you do, as well as having smart children taking Honors and/or AP courses.
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Yes, all of this. Plus her school day didn't even end until 3:40. I just felt like he had already made up his mind, so that's fine.
Glitterhater
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Seriously, I'm not just BS'ing, I'm sorry that you have to go through alot to get your DD/DS to their sport. I'm sure they are grateful! All our kids better appreciate us, lol
All this just made me feel sick in my head. None of the greats had to also take BS AP classes and all this and that to be a great soccer player. Only for the girls do we heap all this crap on them. Let them live their life a little for goodness snakes. Ok, that's me just keeping it real with all of you.
If our coach said to put soccer before homework, he'd lose half his team.