Thank you for your insight. All of this that you mentioned with your nephew cost.......$0. Exactly what @Luis Andres has been saying. If you really want it, you make it happen.Financial restriction arguments will always be there in a pay-to-play sport but like many posters have said; if you are a good player you will usually find opportunities, whether or not you have the financial means.
The key to being a good young player has very little to do with coaching or money. It is about early engagement with a soccer ball from a young age. Notice I didn’t say specialization, that’s a different thing; early engagement just means being exposed to a soccer ball and basic fundamentals at a young age. Tom Byer (many of you likely have heard of him) talks about it at length and is the biggest proponent of early technical development via engagement with the ball. This is down to parents, not coaches.
If you have a young kid and want them to enjoy the game and be competent, have them learn the fundamentals. If you want to learn more about how to do this, look up Tom Byer or buy his ‘Football starts at home’ book.
I talked to my twin brother back in England about this when my nephew was born. He’s now 7 and for the past 2 years he’s worked on the basics of dribbling, passing and shooting (he does other sports but enjoys soccer so plays it more often). Because of this engagement at an early age, he passes, dribbles and strikes the ball with power, precision and the kind of technique you would expect from a much older kid. This now gives him an advantage entering competitive play with other kids; it’s just about having that base.
You pick up the technical skills and fundamentals from early engagement and repetition; this gives you a very strong foundation and then you can learn the game as you get older with the help of a coach (and of course by playing pickup soccer).
I’ve ranted long enough. Hopefully you get the point. Money doesn’t have to be a limiting factor.
another interesting thing about the AZ Tuzos is if they’re being poached, that means they are being recruited to play at a higher level and/or letters league. Once again proving that regardless of income, top clubs will always recruit the top players.