Why assume we are paying $200 for those fancy new Adidas uniforms? What is wrong with a $20 kit from Score Sports?
Except for professional coaching, AYSO handles all of that just fine on less than $200 per season.
The question isn’t “who should pay for all these things we spend money on?”. The question is “why are we spending so much money?”
I have no problem if the wealthier families want to pay for fancy uniforms and professional coaches. But that isn’t for everyone. I’d like us to have better outreach to include more lower cost teams from lower cost areas.
That what I said earlier...pay what you are comfortable with. Yes, the option you propose exists today. A lot of kids participate in AYSO. If AYSO was a viable option for those playing ECNL, why are the kids playing for the other clubs? The answer to your question is pretty simple...I pay for the things I spend money on, and I decide what I spend my money on....some people like jewelry, cars, and some like spending money on track suits, tournaments and $200 Adidas Uniforms.
Is your kid playing AYSO, if not, why? Who pays for the outreach?