I can share from my personal experience. First, most of us dads who grew up in Socal and actually played sports were either SC or Bruin fans. My mom went to SC and my bro went to UCLA. Basically, either you like one or hate one. I was different kind of fan. I liked both schools and took a lot heat for that. Fast forward a few years to my little baby girl. She is balling and I mean really really balling in the socal youth soccer circuit and of course, I would like my goat to play at big U, right? No way were doing all this soccer for CSUN or The Runnin Rebels........this was me early on btw and not my attitude today. I got humbled
Again, this is the mind set of most dads early on plus our kid will get a full ride in soccer. I do remember three Docs all tell my player in 7th and 8th grade, "where do you want to play college and for God's sakes, please don't say UCLA or USC." I now know why!!!
P.S. Money is not everything and money will never buy you true happiness. The goal for all teenagers should be to do whatever you like with YOUR life. I told both my kids to always know their is a place for them to come live anytime and no one will be mocked for needing a place to sleep in tough times. Whatever my dd wants I support her is the point I'm making,