Surf Players Being Discouraged from playing HS?

Great. You should use that logic to send your kid to CSUN instead of Stanford. BTW, Pepperdine is ranked #209 for best universities by salary potential. 2021 College Rankings by Salary Potential | Payscale. Definitely the best option for a kid, especially because it's a private school.
I'd be curious to see the "Salary by college athletes that aren't playing pro football or basketball."
 
crush commiserating about "how sad" it is what Deza is doing to children,
First off, I have nothing but positives regarding Deza and his coaching children to be the best soccer player now and in college. He's the boss now and he was never my boss or my dd boss. My dd only played against his teams and beat them both times, his EQ team and Force team :) From what everyone is saying about his coaching and teaching the passing game and not caring about the score is true and according to legends, he's top notch, you mean person. I can voice my "moo displeasure" about the player pool and not allowing HSS. I think it's unfair and not right but to each his own.
 
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Yep, you can leave a sport and get back in pretty quickly, but they don't want you to believe that because it lowers their value and business proposition. They want you to believe that year round specialization is the only way, or you will be left behind. It's really about the DOC's losing control and $$ and keeping up the pressure and fear that their business model is based on.
My daughter played for Deza. He legitimately felt the training in HS was not worthy of the elite players. Nothing more - nothing less. In DA, you paid the same whether you played HS or not - so it definitely wasn't about the money then. Yes, you can "get back in pretty quickly" but with a lost period of time of better training and whatever incremental gain that entails.

There are very good reasons to play HS soccer, or another sport other than soccer for that matter, that have nothing to do with the training. I like ECNL because it gives clubs and families a choice - unlike DA.
 
Coach Mario just sent me a Surf Jr Tryouts for the 2016 and 2017 age group for next season. 4 and 5 year olds. No traveling ((yay)) and all local games. 12 month program so dont you dare think about playing biddy basketball or God forbid want to go Surf the waves. Starting so young....

all local is a bit deceiving when the majority of your road games are in East county and your team is in north county
 
Great. You should use that logic to send your kid to CSUN instead of Stanford. BTW, Pepperdine is ranked #209 for best universities by salary potential. 2021 College Rankings by Salary Potential | Payscale. Definitely the best option for a kid, especially because it's a private school.
Payscale relies on anonymous self-reporting so not exactly a great source.

I could spend the time to post better sources that show that lifetime earnings potential is more closely linked to SAT/ACT scores than university attended unless you are a minority, but it wouldn’t make any difference to you so I won’t bother.
 
In a perfect world, you are right, but it is not a perfect world. My kid did not play HS as a freshman because she was pretty small still, and ended up being asked to play up as filler at an ECNL showcase to help the sophomores get recruited and because a couple kids had played HS instead. She went from filler to being recruited by 20 schools in less than a week, while one of the kids who played HS ended up getting hurt later, missed the next showcase, and that was pretty much that. Another landed on the bench because my kid took her spot while she was gone. They both ended up at different clubs and at colleges their parents believed were beneath them. They didn't play in front of college coaches until well into their junior and senior years and by then most of the top colleges were done making offers to anyone other than purple unicorns.

You never know when or how your kid will get found. But if you're going to ECNL events playing under Deza, your kid is pretty much maximizing their recruiting potential. And if they don't, they run a real risk that that they go to Pepperdine or SDSU when it could have been UCLA or USC. Or maybe they still get an offer at UCLA or USC, but it's as a recruited walk on because they already committed all their money to kids they offered from the ECNL showcase they missed.
What’s the end game here? Playing for USC/UCLA or what you prefer to call lesser schools such as Pepperdine or SDSU? If playing for a strong ECNL club showcases a player to get into a school, with possible scholarship money or not, that they otherwise wouldn’t get into without a ECNL soccer background….well that’s a “win”. I’m referring to schools like Stanford and Ivy League schools. Not UCLA and USC. If your daughter wants to go pro and make $52 grand playing in the NWSL for 3-4 years while holding down a waitress job on the side, you better keep that spare room open at your house, cause she will be moving back in at age 25. A degree from a prestigious school sets a kid up for life. Play futbol to get into school, and get a legit degree should be the goal for 99% of these teenagers. If my daughter wants to play professionally, I would highly discourage it. Your mileage may vary…
 
What’s the end game here? Playing for USC/UCLA or what you prefer to call lesser schools such as Pepperdine or SDSU? If playing for a strong ECNL club showcases a player to get into a school, with possible scholarship money or not, that they otherwise wouldn’t get into without a ECNL soccer background….well that’s a “win”. I’m referring to schools like Stanford and Ivy League schools. Not UCLA and USC. If your daughter wants to go pro and make $52 grand playing in the NWSL for 3-4 years while holding down a waitress job on the side, you better keep that spare room open at your house, cause she will be moving back in at age 25. A degree from a prestigious school sets a kid up for life. Play futbol to get into school, and get a legit degree should be the goal for 99% of these teenagers. If my daughter wants to play professionally, I would highly discourage it. Your mileage may vary…
I can share from my personal experience. First, most of us dads who grew up in Socal and actually played sports were either SC or Bruin fans. My mom went to SC and my bro went to UCLA. Basically, either you like one or hate one. I was different kind of fan. I liked both schools and took a lot heat for that. Fast forward a few years to my little baby girl. She is balling and I mean really really balling in the socal youth soccer circuit and of course, I would like my goat to play at big U, right? No way were doing all this soccer for CSUN or The Runnin Rebels........this was me early on btw and not my attitude today. I got humbled :) Again, this is the mind set of most dads early on plus our kid will get a full ride in soccer. I do remember three Docs all tell my player in 7th and 8th grade, "where do you want to play college and for God's sakes, please don't say UCLA or USC." I now know why!!!

P.S. Money is not everything and money will never buy you true happiness. The goal for all teenagers should be to do whatever you like with YOUR life. I told both my kids to always know their is a place for them to come live anytime and no one will be mocked for needing a place to sleep in tough times. Whatever my dd wants I support her is the point I'm making,
 
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I can share from my personal experience. First, most of us dads who grew up in Socal and actually played sports were either SC or Bruin fans. My mom went to SC and my bro went to UCLA. Basically, either you like one or hate one. I was different kind of fan. I liked both schools and took a lot heat for that. Fast forward a few years to my little baby girl. She is balling and I mean really really balling in the socal youth soccer circuit and of course, I would like my goat to play at big U, right? No way were doing all this soccer for CSUN or The Runnin Rebels........this was me early on btw and not my attitude today. I got humbled :) Again, this is the mind set of most dads early on plus our kid will get a full ride in soccer. I do remember three Docs all tell my player in 7th and 8th grade, "where do you want to play college and for God's sakes, please don't say UCLA or USC." I now know why!!!

P.S. Money is not everything and money will never buy you true happiness. The goal for all teenagers should be to do whatever you like with YOUR life. I told both my kids to always know their is a place for them to come live anytime and no one will be mocked for needing a place to sleep in tough times. Whatever my dd wants I support her is the point I'm making,
In the business world 10% of the colleges have name recognition in some form or other (split by industry) with employers. The other 90% check the box for a 4 year college on a resume. The big name colleges can get your foot in the door for an interview but that's about it. Theoretically the more opportunities you get for interviews the better your chances are for a good job. So there is value in going to one of the to 10% name recognition schools. However, I'm not sure if all the extra things you need to do are worth it though. If you really want to get ahead just do an MBA or JD.

Another thing to consider is if you're playing soccer at a big name college exactly how much time will you get to spend on studies? I've heard rumors of college coaches passing on players that say they're going after overly complex degrees.

Professional Men's and Women's soccer players start out making 40k-75k per year.

I have a relative that went to one of the Elite D1 Private Schools on Lacrosse scholarship. Had most of his college paid for. When he graduated he looked into doing professional Lacrosse and decided against it when he found out people bagging groceries were making the same amount of money as pro players. He said that this was one of the biggest issues with players continuing to do sports after college. You could make 100k+ in a desk job (with upward mobility) or 30k playing sports with very little chance of doing better. If there was student loans you literally had to do a desk job.
 
In the business world 10% of the colleges have name recognition in some form or other (split by industry) with employers. The other 90% check the box for a 4 year college on a resume. The big name colleges can get your foot in the door for an interview but that's about it. Theoretically the more opportunities you get for interviews the better your chances are for a good job. So there is value in going to one of the to 10% name recognition schools. However, I'm not sure if all the extra things you need to do are worth it though. If you really want to get ahead just do an MBA or JD.

Another thing to consider is if you're playing soccer at a big name college exactly how much time will you get to spend on studies? I've heard rumors of college coaches passing on players that say they're going after overly complex degrees.

Professional Men's and Women's soccer players start out making 40k-75k per year.

I have a relative that went to one of the Elite D1 Private Schools on Lacrosse scholarship. Had most of his college paid for. When he graduated he looked into doing professional Lacrosse and decided against it when he found out people bagging groceries were making the same amount of money as pro players. He said that this was one of the biggest issues with players continuing to do sports after college. You could make 100k+ in a desk job (with upward mobility) or 30k playing sports with very little chance of doing better. If there was student loans you literally had to do a desk job.
I know this far fetch idea but I'm hearing some cool stuff about the UBI and how Magnetism will change all of our lives for the better. Now if you want talk about the way things used to be, I agree with everything your saying.
 
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It was not pretty for Sharks but to be accurate:
U19 1-0 Surf
U17 2-0 Surf (Deza coached)
U16 6-0 Surf
U15 4-0 Surf (includes MW recruits) (Deza coached)
U14 6-0 Surf (MW coached team with multiple Albion recruits)
U13 6-1 Surf (MW coached team and 90% his Albion 09 team)

MW is not the savior everyone seems to think he will be for Sharks. He doesn't have the patience, coaching skill, nor does San Diego have enough talent outside Surf to be competitive in the Sonoran division. MW was out coached by CB in the 09 game as well by DT in the 08 game. The older Sharks coaches made better adjustments than MW in their games to keep it close.
Someone is wayyyyyy too invested and spending wayyyyy too much time with youth soccer.

MW seems like nice guy, but if I'm being completely honest, I always thought his teams played a lot of kickball. Watch his defenders, do they try to possess and pass the ball out and around or just blast the ball out of bounds or forward over the midfield? Maybe that's changed.
 
MW is a fantastic coach and an even better guy but if any of you seriously think that Surf will lose out you are nuts. I watched 4/5 of the games on Sunday and the scores didn’t tell the story. Every game could have been 10+.
somebody else is wayyyyy too "invested" in youth soccer.
 
I don't think anyone here is saying that Red. Surf's rock solid starting 11 are not going anywhere, or even the 12-14 that get enough playing time. It's the 15 to 20, and solid ECRL players that Sharks may be able to pick up here and there that improve their starting 11. At least to a point to give other teams in the league better games. That's clearly the objective, and that situation would be better for everyone involved I would think.
don't be so sure, Surf has lost top starters from its 2004, 2005, and 2006 team through the years.
 
I'm pretty sure last ECNL is in Tennessee this weekend and last GA is following weekend at Silverlakes. Shouldn't all girls be free for a couple months to play High School then?

Alyssa Thompson seemed to have no issues playing club (top 10 ranked) and High School (Player of the year)

Silverlakes is hosting a pretty big High School Tournament Dec. 20-22. SilverLakes Winter Classic.
 
Someone is wayyyyyy too invested and spending wayyyyy too much time with youth soccer.

MW seems like nice guy, but if I'm being completely honest, I always thought his teams played a lot of kickball. Watch his defenders, do they try to possess and pass the ball out and around or just blast the ball out of bounds or forward over the midfield? Maybe that's changed.
MW's teams were actually known for their passing. The 2006 National Championship team was notorious for the entertaining style of play. Don't take my work for it. Look up the old posts from 2-3 years ago.
 
Great. You should use that logic to send your kid to CSUN instead of Stanford. BTW, Pepperdine is ranked #209 for best universities by salary potential. 2021 College Rankings by Salary Potential | Payscale. Definitely the best option for a kid, especially because it's a private school.
You rank schools by graduates’ salaries. So you recommend my kid should play for Harvey Mudd?

Not a bad idea, actually. The games would be closer than if she played for MIT.

Either way, it’s time to stop worrying about ECNL and pay more attention to robotics.
 
MW's teams were actually known for their passing. The 2006 National Championship team was notorious for the entertaining style of play. Don't take my work for it. Look up the old posts from 2-3 years ago.
I can substantiate your post. My youngest 06 DD played for LAGSB and LAG DA. We went head to head with MW 06 Albion team for several years. Great battles playing possession minded soccer. I won't post it but I have the film from some of those games.
 
They certainly lost some over the years. Back to the point, however, how many of them went to Sharks? I can't think of any.
If Surf players were leaving the club several years ago it would be for DA (Albion or City) or went to Blues.

Sharks have a DOC that can make things happen now so it remains to be seen if this is an option.
 
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