Tyler Durden
BRONZE
In the end 99.99% of these girls end up having a career in something other than soccer. Enjoy the ride. Go to the best school that your child can get into.
If soccer can get you assistance that gets you into a school that you could not get into on your own, that is great. If soccer helps a family get the financial assistance they need for their child to go to school, that is great.
If your child thrives on being on a team and feels that the sacrifices are worth forgoing the normal student experience, that is great.
A lot of parents are over the top with this youth soccer pathway and it is borderline toxic. We probably all suffer from being the super type A personality that wants curate our child's soccer experience and youth soccer community is filled with flawed people just like us. I too was one of those parents and I seen now that it was all ridiculous and in the end the time I spent may have been better spent.
Best of luck to all the parents on the board and remind you all to take it easy becuase it all comes to an end at some point. Next chapter, you wil. be hoping to be around for your grandchildren.
If soccer can get you assistance that gets you into a school that you could not get into on your own, that is great. If soccer helps a family get the financial assistance they need for their child to go to school, that is great.
If your child thrives on being on a team and feels that the sacrifices are worth forgoing the normal student experience, that is great.
A lot of parents are over the top with this youth soccer pathway and it is borderline toxic. We probably all suffer from being the super type A personality that wants curate our child's soccer experience and youth soccer community is filled with flawed people just like us. I too was one of those parents and I seen now that it was all ridiculous and in the end the time I spent may have been better spent.
Best of luck to all the parents on the board and remind you all to take it easy becuase it all comes to an end at some point. Next chapter, you wil. be hoping to be around for your grandchildren.