ECNL expansion 2021-2022

YES- this.

And stop posting her freaking pictures!
Freaking pictures of a goat who played with GOAT FC has you all up in arms? Who cares? I only did a test today to see what reaction I would get after 46, the TM, decided to take her shot like she does once every few months. Tell you what. I will take a chill pill and wait until next season to post again. This season is not looking good. GOAT FC rules. Do you have GOAT FC team up in Nocal? Sorry I posted a pic when she was 9. That was wrong of me and I see the error of my ways. I wont freaking do that again. Sorry about that :)
 
Part of why people respond to Crush aka EJ aka SoccerHelper is that his journey as a passionate soccer dad has similarities to our own. Most not so involved, some better informed, some more laize-fare about the whole thing, but all of us here care some way or another. Every time I comment about my kid specifically, I cringe and think ok, somebody's gonna jump my case for making it about my kid rather than league standings or the state of collegiate women's soccer writ large. But that's why I started poking around here...trying to get some ideas and insights for the best way forward for my kid, because if we're honest, that's who matters most to each of us.

I don't want to know what kind of prior history leads to the belligerent talk here, but gotta say, look at the bright side: since most ppl on here apparently either have club players or college players, at least we can afford to indulge our loved ones. Are we fooling them with dreams of national team access or D1 college play? Maybe. But at least we're not scratching for the next meal.
 
Freaking pictures of a goat who played with GOAT FC has you all up in arms? Who cares? I only did a test today to see what reaction I would get after 46, the TM, decided to take her shot like she does once every few months. Tell you what. I will take a chill pill and wait until next season to post again. This season is not looking good. GOAT FC rules. Do you have GOAT FC team up in Nocal? Sorry I posted a pic when she was 9. That was wrong of me and I see the error of my ways. I wont freaking do that again. Sorry about that :)
No GOAT FC in NorCal.

But SCC is down to 155 cases today. Average drops below 105 and it's game on.

Yeah, yeah, 3 weeks after red, 7 day lag and all that. But it's getting close.
 
The hate is huge today. PM of hate...lol!!! Listen all you macho dads, leave my dd out of this. Only I speak of my goat, not any of you. If you see her, smile and say hi and dont mad dog her. If you see me, keep your ass away and at least 6 x 6 away from me. I will walk to my dd game with my head held high. I will not talk to anyone because we will all still have on our mask and I have nothing to say to most of you. The ones who get me, thanks. That is a very small % right now so I will be looking over my shoulders at the next USL match. I do have eyes behind my back, FYI.
do you do drugs --Honest Question
 
Freaking pictures of a goat who played with GOAT FC has you all up in arms? Who cares? I only did a test today to see what reaction I would get after 46, the TM, decided to take her shot like she does once every few months. Tell you what. I will take a chill pill and wait until next season to post again. This season is not looking good. GOAT FC rules. Do you have GOAT FC team up in Nocal? Sorry I posted a pic when she was 9. That was wrong of me and I see the error of my ways. I wont freaking do that again. Sorry about that :)
Oh JFC. Never mind, you totally missed the point. You were talking about remaining anonymous, and I said don't post her picture - because you know, that is the opposite of anonymous.
 
Part of why people respond to Crush aka EJ aka SoccerHelper is that his journey as a passionate soccer dad has similarities to our own. Most not so involved, some better informed, some more laize-fare about the whole thing, but all of us here care some way or another. Every time I comment about my kid specifically, I cringe and think ok, somebody's gonna jump my case for making it about my kid rather than league standings or the state of collegiate women's soccer writ large. But that's why I started poking around here...trying to get some ideas and insights for the best way forward for my kid, because if we're honest, that's who matters most to each of us.

I don't want to know what kind of prior history leads to the belligerent talk here, but gotta say, look at the bright side: since most ppl on here apparently either have club players or college players, at least we can afford to indulge our loved ones. Are we fooling them with dreams of national team access or D1 college play? Maybe. But at least we're not scratching for the next meal.
Here ya go pal:
 
In your opinion, sure. But, DA was not able to, even with the funding behind it. What you are saying is if US Soccer copied ECNL they could have potentially knocked ECNL off its pedestal. So you are agreeing that ECNL has the most desirable product that people want to compete in.

The GDA was poorly executed and not allowing HS was a bad judgement call. Mirroring ECNL and allowing HS play would have given ECNL fits. The product on the field would have been a better one (it was a better one , while it lasted).

The 9 month season made sense, with the emphasis on the 4:1 training to game ratio. It was a proven and codified approach to development. The counterargument is that it didn't work for the men's side. But, the US women are the best in the world. Why not get behind US Soccer's effort to continue to raise up girls? On paper it provided consistency and balance. Less, more meaningful games and a better training environment. An approach that high level academies all over the world use. We have a sacred thing called HS sports and we have plenty of multisport athletes. The approach worked well enough for 8th graders but became less tenable at 9th grade and beyond. It's unfortunate. I personally preferred the GDA approach, with the addition of allowing HS and other sports. My DD is no longer a multi sport athlete (unfortunately) and has no interest in HS soccer. There are many like her and there are many not like her.

Just the way it goes I guess. US Soccer tried to professionalize and codify youth soccer, didn't work.
 
Part of why people respond to Crush aka EJ aka SoccerHelper is that his journey as a passionate soccer dad has similarities to our own. Most not so involved, some better informed, some more laize-fare about the whole thing, but all of us here care some way or another. Every time I comment about my kid specifically, I cringe and think ok, somebody's gonna jump my case for making it about my kid rather than league standings or the state of collegiate women's soccer writ large. But that's why I started poking around here...trying to get some ideas and insights for the best way forward for my kid, because if we're honest, that's who matters most to each of us.

I don't want to know what kind of prior history leads to the belligerent talk here, but gotta say, look at the bright side: since most ppl on here apparently either have club players or college players, at least we can afford to indulge our loved ones. Are we fooling them with dreams of national team access or D1 college play? Maybe. But at least we're not scratching for the next meal.
Amen bro. My dd just was hoping to play against all the greats. Just a few more games until she retires. 11 games in the last 3 years is hard on any young athlete. It wasnt her fault and it sure in the hell wasnt my fault. No need to keep sharing about the past on here. You get me and we dont always agree. 23 degree is true grit. What part of the country did D1 that emailed come from? I bet cold area with lot's of snow? Vermont? Bro, you know I'm always about satire first and then I slap hard in the face and then we laugh it off. You slap me and then I slap you back. I speak words only and I get folks on here telling me I better turn around and find another path to the fields. Can you believe that? I will jump the fence for Gods sakes if I ever see people I used to have conversations with and even shared a drink or at least lunch. Next time I will ask these kind folks to read me my club rights and tell me whatever I say at Silverlake's will not be used against me at the soccal soccer forum 5 years later.
 
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The GDA was poorly executed and not allowing HS was a bad judgement call. .
Happy, no one agrees with you. My dd was the only one who cared about it and all the other 200,000+ customers couldnt give a rats ass about HS Soccer. GDA ring a bell? Only me and maybe a few other kids cared and I'm still being called names on here. For some reason, today I had more PMs with nasty things then ever.
 
The GDA was poorly executed and not allowing HS was a bad judgement call. Mirroring ECNL and allowing HS play would have given ECNL fits. The product on the field would have been a better one (it was a better one , while it lasted).

The 9 month season made sense, with the emphasis on the 4:1 training to game ratio. It was a proven and codified approach to development. The counterargument is that it didn't work for the men's side. But, the US women are the best in the world. Why not get behind US Soccer's effort to continue to raise up girls? On paper it provided consistency and balance. Less, more meaningful games and a better training environment. An approach that high level academies all over the world use. We have a sacred thing called HS sports and we have plenty of multisport athletes. The approach worked well enough for 8th graders but became less tenable at 9th grade and beyond. It's unfortunate. I personally preferred the GDA approach, with the addition of allowing HS and other sports. My DD is no longer a multi sport athlete (unfortunately) and has no interest in HS soccer. There are many like her and there are many not like her.

Just the way it goes I guess. US Soccer tried to professionalize and codify youth soccer, didn't work.

Other than the part about not allowing HS soccer being bad judgment, you are wrong as usual.

The forced 4:1 ratio was a bad idea. It’s great for a handful of kids, and awesome if available in a voluntary basis, but there just aren’t enough families who are ok with that kind of rigidity. Maybe that makes for more soccer drones, but it was financially a bad idea. Plus, making 13 year old kids train 4x a week and then limit what they actually want to do (play) only drives a lot of kids into sports that are more fun, and are also less expensive than what is required by a club that requires training four days a week.

Oh, and overhauling the system used by what is easily the best country in the world will only make it worse. The US is the best at women’s soccer because far more girls (and then women) play it more and more often for a longer span of years. That’s it. Once you start dictating a one size fits all approach for everyone, you drive people out of the sport, and you take away the one tremendous advantage that the US has over other countries.

The second anyone says that the US should do what all the other counties that are worse do (academies), you know they’re an idiot. Yeah, the US should definitely pattern its youth program after loser Spain, and loser Netherlands, and loser France, and loser Japan. That makes a lot of sense. Great idea.

The one other country that has a decent idea what it is doing is England, which is a little like the US. Like the US, England doesn’t seem to stress over 13 year old girls and lets local clubs do what is best for their customers. England, like the US, also understands that bruisers are far more important at the senior level than all these circus jugglers who are so prized at other European and Japanese youth academies. England won’t compete with the US over the long haul because England jist doesn’t have enough people, but it has developed a solid girls soccer culture and doesn’t do things to drive kids out of the sport early. And it was the only country that gave the US all it could handle at the last WC.
 
Amen bro. My dd just was hoping to play against all the greats. Just a few more games until she retires. 11 games in the last 3 years is hard on any young athlete. It wasnt her fault and it sure in the hell wasnt my fault. No need to keep sharing about the past on here. You get me and we dont always agree. 23 degree is true grit. What part of the country did D1 that emailed come from? I bet cold area with lot's of snow? Vermont? Bro, you know I'm always about satire first and then I slap hard in the face and then we laugh it off. You slap me and then I slap you back. I speak words only and I get folks on here telling me I better turn around and find another path to the fields. Can you believe that? I will jump the fence for Gods sakes if I ever see people I used to have conversations with and even shared a drink or at least lunch. Next time I will ask these kind folks to read me my club rights and tell me whatever I say at Silverlake's will not be used against me at the soccasl soccer forum 5 years later.
My gosh. Just checking in as I hunker down in this cold weather. Took me only a brief second to figure out Crush is EJ. Dude, when do you plan to mellow out? You are going to be your dd's worst enemy as she goes off to college. Hopefully, she'll go somewhere out of your driving range so you can't piss off her coach, if you don't screw that up on her as she tried to be recruited. Some things never change.
 
My gosh. Just checking in as I hunker down in this cold weather. Took me only a brief second to figure out Crush is EJ. Dude, when do you plan to mellow out? You are going to be your dd's worst enemy as she goes off to college. Hopefully, she'll go somewhere out of your driving range so you can't piss off her coach, if you don't screw that up on her as she tried to be recruited. Some things never change.
I thought you retired. Nice that you have not lost your zest. Have a great night.
 
My gosh. Just checking in as I hunker down in this cold weather. Took me only a brief second to figure out Crush is EJ. Dude, when do you plan to mellow out? You are going to be your dd's worst enemy as she goes off to college. Hopefully, she'll go somewhere out of your driving range so you can't piss off her coach, if you don't screw that up on her as she tried to be recruited. Some things never change.
Kicker, is this you? Fact is an old account everyone. These guys never change. Carry on Fact. Wow, another personality. I'll let my dd know Fact is back. Maps, Fact is back....lol!!!
 
Kicker, is this you? Fact is an old account everyone. These guys never change. Carry on Fact. Wow, another personality. I'll let my dd know Fact is back. Maps, Fact is back....lol!!!
Sorry, all the Covid ranting got old quickly so I checked out. Nieces playing other sports in a better state now.
 
Sorry, all the Covid ranting got old quickly so I checked out. Nieces playing other sports in a better state now.
OK. I'm sure you can see I havent missed a beat. Plus, my dd is on the same team now more then any other team so I thought you would be proud of her ((us)) for not hopping around looking for a free handout in these tough times. Instead, you talk about her recruiting again which keeps reminding me of the past. Why do you care? If you PM me, I will let you in on a little secret. But you half to promise never to tell what I tell you, cool?
 
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This was a long day for me. I'm pooped. Good night to all of you. I have been warned more today about recruiting then at any other time. For the record, my dd can go to any state school or community college she desires. Sports is secondary, just so you guys know. Her grades are amazing and that alone is all she needs. If she is allowed to walk on that would be wonderful. I hope some school could find a spot for her if she decides to play college ball.
 
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