Pool play issues I have as a father and 11 years into this club soccer stuff. Please take this with a grain of salt.
Insensitive Coach ((IC)): ((Usually has no kids or no dd for sure. Clueless on the mental aspects of young females)).
Pool Player ((PP)). A player who is not really on a team but more a part of the club. Many ways to spin this. I spin it one way. It sucks for the PP and their parents but hey, they have more than one team to be placed on so all should be happy, right?
A day at the pool can be very hard on certain females but not all.
IC: Hey player, what's wrong with you today? If you don't give me more effort, I'm sending you to the B team
PP: No, not the B team, my dad will be pissed!!!!
IC: Hey player, better job but it's a little too late. I shouldnt have to yell at you for slacking off at the beginning of practice and goofing around with a smile and talking with your friends. I need more "go getter" from you so B team this weekend.
Dad ((after practice)): Well, A team?
IC: B team dad.
Dad: WTF!!!! I dont drive down here for B team. Your way better then so and so and for sure way better then so and so. Did Susie make A team?
PP: I'm so sorry father. I tried, I really did father.
Dad: Give me your phone. You make A team, you get it back
PP: Ok
Dad ((calls IC)): Coach, you told me at the beginning of the season that my dd was A team all the way. WTF coach?
IC: Truth be told, I picked 4 more players after I told you she was A team. She is now B team unless she steps up
Dad: Money back please
IC: Too late sucker
Dad: Oh ya, that's what you think
IC: Go ahead and try. I know everyone in the game and my word is gold. Your a stupid dad and no one will believe you. No one like's a club hopper either or a dad snooping around asking too many questions.
Pool play for girls is no good guys, moo!!!!