Big year coming up 2012 ecnl

Surfer_dad said:
You are flat out wrong. You are either emotional or ignorant. Just say parents sometimes ruin a team.
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Comments like Rainbow is why marriages don't last. "You never take out the trash. You never say, "I love you." "You always go out with your friends." "It's all your fault parents." "It's crush's fault that his kid was retaliated against."
 
rainbow_unicorn said:
It's always the parents that ruin a team. Always.
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That’s a super emotional statement, and it sounds like a lazy excuse. Blaming parents for ruining a team every time isn’t accurate. Teams fall apart for all kinds of reasons such as coaching, player issues, leadership, and yeah, sometimes parents. Saying it’s always the parents is just oversimplifying a bigger picture.

The number one priority for every parent with a DD or DS in any sports is simple: My kid’s development comes first. Every decision a parent makes is based on that and stems from that. Whether it affects the team or not isn’t the parent’s problem. Managing that dynamic is the responsibility of the club director and coach.
 
Luis Andres said:
That’s a super emotional statement, and it sounds like a lazy excuse. Blaming parents for ruining a team every time isn’t accurate. Teams fall apart for all kinds of reasons such as coaching, player issues, leadership, and yeah, sometimes parents. Saying it’s always the parents is just oversimplifying a bigger picture.

The number one priority for every parent with a DD or DS in any sports is simple: My kid’s development comes first. Every decision a parent makes is based on that and stems from that. Whether it affects the team or not isn’t the parent’s problem. Managing that dynamic is the responsibility of the club director and coach.
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Fair points Luis and not emotional like our little Rainbow Unicorn that pops in from time to time. Dude has been after me since I joined the forum, when I raised concerns about Docs banging moms for play time. That's not good team chemistry and if and when a coach goes after mom for her dd play time, well, that team will break up because of the cancer caused. I guess it's the mom's fault to go all Miss Gump for her dd wellbeing. I would love to pull the mask off Rainbows dome someday.
 
rainbow_unicorn said:
It's always the parents that ruin a team. Always.
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The more I think about this joker's comments, the more it hit me. I think the men have been ruining the teams for the girls, but not always. Rich dad who cheats and pays extra to make the A Team or male leaders telling little girls their dreams are only pipe dreams.

Example of dream snatchers

"Our volleyball dreams were shattered. We had to choose between competing against a male player or forfeiting." ​



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