Honestly I would not seek medical advise from from this forum. If your doctor does not know, seek advise from another doctor or two.
Safe is a relative term. New Zealand and Taiwan are the safest, as they actually reported zero daily new cases. Germany is not as safe as New Zealand, but they're looking good and Bundesliga is back on. US is not as safe as Germany, but probably safer than Brazil. Working with one coach and the same 10 kids every week is safer than working with two coaches and 20 kids.
My kids will participate when soccer is allowed because I figure this is about as safe as we will get in this country. As a country, we didn't do the shelter-in-place all that well, and we also couldn't handle/allow the hard core contact tracing like they do in Korea. If we go into lock down again, I've personally come to the conclusion that we simply will not achieve the kind of results that has been achieved in other countries.
Work, school and soccer fall under essential activities in my household, so my kids will play. But we limit our exposure everywhere else. My kids don't go to Costco with my wife for free samples anymore
(not sure if they still have them).
Good luck to you.
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