Holy moly you are dramatic.
There is a reason we don't allow boys to play vs girls and men vs women. A biological one. It's about safety, and it's about fairness.
You may be willing to sacrifice fairness for inclusivity, but lots of people care that competitions are fair for all involved. It's why we have referees.
actually one of the prior drivers of title ix was inclusivity. It was to get more women to play sports and to force schools to open up more places for athletics than just gridiron football. Fairness had little to do with it. Fairness would have been opening a women’s division in gridiron football. They didn’t do that.
fairness is also in the eye of the beholder. Why after all should a sport as unpopular as field hockey be needed to balance the scholarships from football when clearly it’s football the students, alumni and audiences demand? Hint: inclusivity…to give women an opportunity to play Even though across the board their play is lesser. Again, how is that fair to the male soccer player who is an all around better player than his female equivalent but doesn’t get a scholarship because of the males on the gridiron football team and the fact women weren’t forced to/give the opportunity to play football (btw there is a movement afoot for women’s flag football teams…the move for it has been building including in Sunday leagues and cif…if it takes off the female soccer world is going to be turned on its head so y’all will be lucky your kids will have aged out 10 years from now)