Surf cup controversy

GoldenGate said:
The idea that only girls should play girls in kiddie soccer is the actual nonsense concept. Otherwise you would be able to show us all that chapter in your biology textbook that contains the kiddie soccer "laws of the game". In reality, your point of view appears to based on the section of the bible that says you can stone trans children to death, but you obviously don't want to come out and say it.

Fundamentally, the entire concept of separating out biological men from women in sport has nothing to do with any "biology" either. If anything, "biology" supports just getting rid of gendered sports completely since everyone who plays is human with two feet and the ability to play the same sport regardless of gender. Who may and may not play in a particular sporting event is a determination made by those in charge of the event/league/association about what the decision makers deem appropriate and important, and what they do not. In the end, you have decided that trying to prop up your daughter's and/or your frail self-esteem is more important to you than the welfare and safety of a group that you clearly hold in contempt. But the youth soccer organizations that have you losing sleep have decided that winning and losing is not important compared to inclusion and ensuring that trans girls have as a safe place to play sport.

In the end, it is your fault your little princess isn't emotionally stable enough to handle the theoretical possibility that she might lose a soccer game because a trans girl was on the other team. You're the one who taught her to hate trans girls, but thankfully a youth soccer league has taken steps to help show her that trans girls aren't scary like her daddy has been claiming.
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Why doesn't this "trans" girl play in the boys division? Is he scared?
 
paytoplayisgood said:
Why doesn't this "trans" girl play in the boys division? Is he scared?
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I think that is a reasonable and appropriate conclusion given the fact that you and your friends keep referring to her as "he" and "a boy", and think it's great to out trans children online. There are clearly a lot of scary abusive adults out there who think it is tremendous fun to pick on 10 year old trans girls.

Why doesn't your child take up knitting if playing against a trans girl is too much for her? Seriously, how terrible a soccer player must she be if a 10 year old goalie who might or might not be trans has her weeping that soccer is now too hard for her. Or is it the "trauma" of not getting a trophy that is too much for your emotionally feeble little princess?
 
paytoplayisgood said:
instead of saying trans girl, please refer to the kid as a male. He has an X chromosome and a Y chromosome and is fundamentally faster, stronger, and more athletic than girls.
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It would be grammatically and socially inappropriate to do so. It would also be incredibly mean-spirited and malicious, as you are fully aware.

Why are you so scared of a 10 year old trans girl anyway? Do you fear that she will turn your child into a sexual deviant? Do you fear that she'll rape your child in the bathroom? Or do you fear that she will educate your daughter and expose you for the bigot that you are?
 
GoldenGate said:
I think that is a reasonable and appropriate conclusion given the fact that you and your friends keep referring to her as "he" and "a boy", and think it's great to out trans children online. There are clearly a lot of scary abusive adults out there who think it is tremendous fun to pick on 10 year old trans girls.

Why doesn't your child take up knitting if playing against a trans girl is too much for her? Seriously, how terrible a soccer player must she be if a 10 year old goalie who might or might not be trans has her weeping that soccer is now too hard for her. Or is it the "trauma" of not getting a trophy that is too much for your emotionally feeble little princess?
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I know you're jesting, but I doubt most 10-year olds even think about it much. They haven't yet been watching and listening to their parents enough to understand their bigotry. Give them a few years though sadly. Middle-school is brutal, and the kids become parrots of their parents. Thankfully a lot now break through that wall with social media showing them how shitty their parents are. Yeah, maybe one good thing about social media is that kids these days are learning a lot about both sides of issues, rather than just what they see at home.
 
Soccer Dad & Ref said:
I know you're jesting, but I doubt most 10-year olds even think about it much. They haven't yet been watching and listening to their parents enough to understand their bigotry. Give them a few years though sadly. Middle-school is brutal, and the kids become parrots of their parents. Thankfully a lot now break through that wall with social media showing them how shitty their parents are. Yeah, maybe one good thing about social media is that kids these days are learning a lot about both sides of issues, rather than just what they see at home.
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Why all the accusations? "bigotry", "shitty", "transphobe", and so on.

Are you willing to discuss the fairness issue, or are you just here to call people names?
 
If the shoe fits...

Kids 5-13 years old: Who cares who plays on what team? Sheesh

Kids 14-18: They've now been moved to teams that more match their evolving size and skill. Some coaches bring on a kid that is much bigger and much more skilled than the rest in that division. Is that fair? Likely not, but it happens. Most divisions in older ages end up with correctly sized players and it is up to the referee to keep them playing fairly when there are differences.

I can't tell if some of you are arguing about fairness in terms of safety or teams stacking with unfairly better players.

If it's safety concerns, you've been shown in previous posts that some of those ECNL girls at older ages play really hard. Lower levels still oftentimes have a few players that watch too much NFL on the weekends and bring it to soccer. So, what's your point?

If it's a fairness issue because a possible MTF kid is the best player on the field, what is the difference between that and a coach bringing an ECNL-level player to a Flight 1 team? Not much. But what a few people here have pointed out, are you getting your panties all tied in a wad for just the transgender player? If so, name calling... (shoe fits) It's such a small number, and even with growth of kids coming out, will stay small. Smaller than the sample of ECNL size kids playing down.
 
dad4 said:
Why all the accusations? "bigotry", "shitty", "transphobe", and so on.

Are you willing to discuss the fairness issue, or are you just here to call people names?
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I have discussed the fairness issue in great length. In fact, I'm just about the only one here who is willing to consider the competing "fairness" interests on both sides. So when are you going to accept that any discussion of "fairness" also requires consideration of the interests of a 10 year old trans girl, rather than only your hurt feelings that your 10 year old daughter's opportunity to win a trophy at Surf Cup theoretically decreased? When are you going to accept that "fairness" requires that you and your shit bag friends refer to others by appropriate gender pronouns?

If you aren't going to step up to the plate to provide even a minimal amount of dignity and respect to a 10 year old trans girl, well, yes, you're a bigot, a transphobe and a shit bag. It's a pretty simple concept.
 
GoldenGate said:
I have discussed the fairness issue in great length. In fact, I'm just about the only one here who is willing to consider the competing "fairness" interests on both sides. So when are you going to accept that any discussion of "fairness" also requires consideration of the interests of a 10 year old trans girl, rather than only your hurt feelings that your 10 year old daughter's opportunity to win a trophy at Surf Cup theoretically decreased? When are you going to accept that "fairness" requires that you and your shit bag friends refer to others by appropriate gender pronouns?

If you aren't going to step up to the plate to provide even a minimal amount of dignity and respect to a 10 year old trans girl, well, yes, you're a bigot, a transphobe and a shit bag. It's a pretty simple concept.
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If a 10 year old is "trans", we have to consider the unfortunate child abuse he/she deals with from indoctrinating parents.
 
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GoldenGate said:
I think that is a reasonable and appropriate conclusion given the fact that you and your friends keep referring to her as "he" and "a boy", and think it's great to out trans children online. There are clearly a lot of scary abusive adults out there who think it is tremendous fun to pick on 10 year old trans girls.

Why doesn't your child take up knitting if playing against a trans girl is too much for her? Seriously, how terrible a soccer player must she be if a 10 year old goalie who might or might not be trans has her weeping that soccer is now too hard for her. Or is it the "trauma" of not getting a trophy that is too much for your emotionally feeble little princess?
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You are such a clown
 
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Soccer Dad & Ref said:
If the shoe fits...

Kids 5-13 years old: Who cares who plays on what team? Sheesh

Kids 14-18: They've now been moved to teams that more match their evolving size and skill. Some coaches bring on a kid that is much bigger and much more skilled than the rest in that division. Is that fair? Likely not, but it happens. Most divisions in older ages end up with correctly sized players and it is up to the referee to keep them playing fairly when there are differences.

I can't tell if some of you are arguing about fairness in terms of safety or teams stacking with unfairly better players.

If it's safety concerns, you've been shown in previous posts that some of those ECNL girls at older ages play really hard. Lower levels still oftentimes have a few players that watch too much NFL on the weekends and bring it to soccer. So, what's your point?

If it's a fairness issue because a possible MTF kid is the best player on the field, what is the difference between that and a coach bringing an ECNL-level player to a Flight 1 team? Not much. But what a few people here have pointed out, are you getting your panties all tied in a wad for just the transgender player? If so, name calling... (shoe fits) It's such a small number, and even with growth of kids coming out, will stay small. Smaller than the sample of ECNL size kids playing down.
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no way Ecnl girl can ever match a boy so what is going to happen when they’re 13 and (she ) still wants to play with girls ? Will it be fair
 
J0g0_B0nit0 said:
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no way Ecnl girl can ever match a boy so what is going to happen when they’re 13 and (she ) still wants to play with girls ? Will it be fair
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I think it’s fine until 12 years of age. After that no. Trans girls who are born male should not compete with women. They will have a significant advantage after going through male puberty.
 
Studies suggest that genes can effect one’s gender identity. Like I said there is nothing wrong being trans as there is nothing wrong being gay. But being born male and identifying as a woman while going through male puberty can bring in significant advantages to the trans female when competing in women’s sports thus making it unfair competition for cisgender women.

Being trans or gay are both errors (mutations) in the genetic code which is very normal over a large population when talking about epigenetics. Stressors in the environment can bring about mutations. If trans people reproduce them there is a good chance these mutations can be passed as well.

www.sciencedaily.com

Gene variants provide insight into brain, body incongruence in transgender

Some of the first biological evidence of the incongruence transgender individuals experience, because their brain indicates they are one sex and their body another, may have been found in estrogen receptor pathways in the brain of 30 transgender individuals.
www.sciencedaily.com
 
SoccerSpoiler said:
Studies suggest that genes can effect one’s gender identity. Like I said there is nothing wrong being trans as there is nothing wrong being gay. But being born male and identifying as a woman while going through male puberty can bring in significant advantages to the trans female when competing in women’s sports thus making it unfair competition for cisgender women.

Being trans or gay are both errors (mutations) in the genetic code which is very normal over a large population when talking about epigenetics. Stressors in the environment can bring about mutations. If trans people reproduce them there is a good chance these mutations can be passed as well.

www.sciencedaily.com

Gene variants provide insight into brain, body incongruence in transgender

Some of the first biological evidence of the incongruence transgender individuals experience, because their brain indicates they are one sex and their body another, may have been found in estrogen receptor pathways in the brain of 30 transgender individuals.
www.sciencedaily.com
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If you really want to make GG’s head explode, point out the possible link between trans identification and estrogen mimics in baby bottles.

www.psychologytoday.com

Gender Fluidity and Hormone Disruptors

Hormone-disrupting chemicals may increase gender dysphoria.
www.psychologytoday.com www.psychologytoday.com

Basically, the current spike in transgender identification may be linked to all the hormone disruptors in the plastic around our kids. Avent in particular put a bunch of BPA in baby bottles about 20 years ago. The BPA is an estrogen mimic and leached into the milk the kids drank. Those kids are in high school and college now.

One more reason EU has it right with the precautionary principle. Don’t put that crap in products if you don’t know what it does.
 
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