Most that post here I guess their DDs are playing ECNL and I'm sure the pow wow to watch the training happens at every practice. Since my player isn't there yet what are these coaches doing that some of the the lower leagues coaches are not. I was told they are constantly doing inner squad scrimmage after a few warm up drills. If they don't have the foot skills they won't last on the team. So sounds like coaches are at the mercy of the players level that come to them or they recruit. So those big clubs will always be a draw from the smaller clubs. While talking to a ECNL parent she once told me if we are not winning with the players we have we just go recruit better players. No guarantees your daughter plays travel a far still no guarantee she plays. Also 20 plus on rosters.
It seems you've touched on one of the inherent challenges within elite youth soccer programs, especially within structures like the ECNL. Indeed, at the higher echelons of youth soccer, there's an expectation that players already possess a certain level of technical skill and soccer IQ. Thus, many ECNL coaches can, and often do, focus more on tactics, team dynamics, and game situations, which might explain the predilection for inner-squad scrimmages after warm-ups.
However, it's a bit of a chicken-and-egg situation. Do these clubs produce better players because of superior coaching, or do they attract already skilled players due to their reputation? As you rightly pointed out, there's a strong element of recruitment. Top clubs have the allure of promising greater exposure to college scouts and potential pathways to professional careers, making them a magnet for top talent.
Yet, there's a cautionary tale here for parents and players alike. Big rosters can indeed mean less playing time, and traveling far doesn't guarantee minutes on the pitch. It's essential to find a balance between seeking high-level competition and ensuring a player's development, both technically and mentally. As in all things, it's crucial to remember that every player's journey is unique, and what works for one might not work for another.
All in all, while elite leagues and top clubs have their advantages, it's about finding the unique fit for your player's development approach, both on and off the pitch, that truly matters in the long run.