ECNL vs. DA turf war has created a 'toxic environment'

Sandypk said:
You know the best thing to do is to not engage with him. It was a good honest try, but attention seekers need to be ignored. We would all be better off if we just let him talk to himself. He reminds me of a spoiled child. Always needing attention and if things don’t go his way, he cries and blames others. I hope we all put him back on ignore and continue to talk soccer in a way to help each other.

That’s what he loves anyway, hearing himself talk. Oh and bragging about his dd the goat who isn’t getting a free ride or a YNT invite. And also whining that his dd wasn’t good enough for some teams/coaches or not getting exceptions to rules or waivers like rich kids. Almost forgot, life isn’t fair if you’re not white and rich. Don’t forget all the times he was lied to and duped. We can’t forget any of this because it’s been on repeat for 77 idiotic pages and on many hijacked threads.

ECNL vs DA Turf War thread...not really. Just a little man whining and complaining about how life isn’t fair.
Hate to break it to him, but life is not fair. Life has a lot of ups and downs, but someone needs to tell him that we get up and keep working. Blaming does no good. Complaining does no good. Spreading rumors and putting others down does no good.

Someone needs to tell him that if his dd is good enough, you wouldn’t need to complain so much about the club soccer world. He wouldn’t need to ask for free handouts or beg to be treated like the greatest goat of all time (only his opinion)).

Real goats don’t get special treatment, they earn it. Tell him to let his dd prove her own worth without daddy complaining all the time. How embarrassing it must be for her to have her whole life documented on a forum to strangers. I feel so bad for her. I hope she never reads his posts.

BTW, everything you said to him was on everyone’s mind. Thanks for trying to get him to focus on a topic or at least try to get him to make sense. I appreciate the effort.

I miss the old forum when people actually posted helpful information and posters didn’t hijack threads with their own personal bullshit.

Stay healthy and safe everyone.
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All time best post. I love it.
 
Ellejustus said:
I didnlt mean all sports. I wanted to say, "You don;t seem to like hs sports that much." You seem like me that we all need a break. I'm going platinum soon so I will be able to crocrect my spelling. My wife or dd come on here to correct my spelling when they can (That was a joke @Giesbock just so you know) Again, ask me anytime if you think I'm pulling a fast one past you bro. I strike out Kicker all the time but he has no idea. He plays baseball where you dont ever strikeout. JK kidding kicker, that was my alter ego kicking in. I'm too damm competitive and rub folks the wrong way.
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Wrong again. I liked HS sports for two of my kids. It's the third one that now plays in college that I felt it wasn't the best for. She shares this feeling.
 
MacDre said:
You didn’t answer the question...how much time? Quantify it...give me the number?
Oh yeah, all of my grandmothers were raped too on my USA side of the family during slavery. That’s part of the reason I have a relatively high percentage of European blood.
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The time has passed, Dre. It's time to be held accountable by one's actions TODAY rather than someone else's actions in 1840 or 1920.
 
Come on all you haters. Bring it today. Weal takes if you speak and then hide in your cave. "It's on" "It's going down...." New American Soccer is coming to a city near you soon. Look at all the fools coming out of their holes on April fools day. This is classic and interesting to say the least. I finally understand who the hell has been in charge of soccer all these years. No wonder it's a complete disaster and the men suck at soccer too. Truly I say unto you, your behavior as men has been appalling and you should be ashamed of yourselves. Pathetic and the way these men treat the girls is crazy. Make them travel all over the damm country looking for soccer games that dad can watch and then go to the bar and drink and then come back with sip cups at the games. Sickos!!!!! Listen to them chip at me. "All time best post ever." That was disgusting that you would agree with Sandy's take on my dd and how she was treated by dirt bag cheaters.
 
Simisoccerfan said:
Wrong again. I liked HS sports for two of my kids. It's the third one that now plays in college that I felt it wasn't the best for. She shares this feeling.
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My dd loves high school, high school sports and high school soccer so there ......lol. Stay safe and drink a lot of water. Were in for a long haul.
 
The Outlaw said:
Did I post that? I don't recall. That said, I'm not bitching about the NBA being 75% black and I'm not bitching about the NFL being 65% black. I think the best players should play regardless of skin color. We probably should avoid "the content of their character" at this point. What I'm bitching about is black people bitching there aren't enough black head coaches. That's 30 jobs for fuck's sake. And yes, there are more minorities looking for those jobs now, but most head coaches weren't traditionally in their 30's and 40's. It's heading that way but most coaches were considerably older... like played in the 70's. If it's fair to bitch about very few black coaches, it's fair to bitch there aren't enough Asians, Hispanics and whites in the NBA. So do you see how ridiculous that is? My guess is there's just a shortage of qualified coaches, period, because the same shitty coaches keep getting jobs, over and over again, and there must be a simple reason for that.

I read your article... too much to post in terms of thoughts and objections. Frankly, it's a non issue if you aren't a criminal and don't get arrested. I don't have much sympathy for people that keep going to jail... regardless of ethnicity.
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Well one thing we agree on is that the same shitty coaches keep getting jobs, over and over again.
 
Ellejustus said:
I love that you love that my 12 year old was treated horrible by pimps. White one's too......
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Again, your talking about a 12 year old soccer player? 12! Let that sink in for a moment. I'm guessing that was 4 years ago? Let that sink in as well. Do do fill bad for your daughters experience I truly do but there's a point when you have to look in the mirror and say " I need help". Game recocgnize game!!
 
VegasParent said:
Well one thing we agree on is that the same shitty coaches keep getting jobs, over and over again.
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I appreciate your noting that. So you don't think it's bullshit that black people are complaining about NFL coaching opportunities? You don't think it's bullshit that LeBron James calls NFL owners "rich, white plantation owners"?
 
Remember, today's topic is about, 1) The unfair treatment of the WNT players from 30 years ago up to today. 2) The mistreatment of young female soccer goat athletes and how wrong their treated so they choose to go "full time" at a cost of parents at $15,000 a year (according to Hope Solo). Plus, how race is 100% an issue in soccer. Nothing else on the docket today :)
 
The Outlaw said:
Who bought the sauce from these coaches... your 12-year old or you?
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12 year old did. She did the interviewing and asking the questions. I sat with her and asked a few questions myself. My dd is a smart cat Lester. So if a coach, any coach for that matter messes with a 12 year old little girl, it's my fault as the dad? Lester lives in 1950 everyone.
 
The Outlaw said:
I appreciate your noting that. So you don't think it's bullshit that black people are complaining about NFL coaching opportunities? You don't think it's bullshit that LeBron James calls NFL owners "rich, white plantation owners"?
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It's not just black people complaining about NFL coaching opportunities. It gets brought up by multiple ESPN talking heads so it's a topic that comes up every year to stir conversation. Is there validity to it? Yes, but not to the extent that it's made out to be. Black coaches are not going to complain publicly because they don't want to ruin their chance at getting one of those jobs one day. As for LeBron James, I don't know the context of why he said that but taking it on face value, I personally would not make that comment because NFL owners are paying their players millions of dollars. I don't believe plantation owners did that. But he is a very wealthy player who wants to be an NBA owner someday so we will see if he does things differently if he get that opportunity.
 
How do pimps brainwash?
Once the exploitation begins on the parents, soccer pimps use a cycle of flattery and affection, mixed in with some verbal abuse and, to keep their victims in their clutches and to essentially brainwash them into thinking their kid is all that and even tell the goat the scouts are interested and watching her every move in soccer and in her personal life. This is the best situation for the pimp, to keep them loyal so they won't go on the socal soccer forum spouting off their mouth about the brainwashing they experienced a few years ago.
 
The Outlaw said:
The time has passed, Dre. It's time to be held accountable by one's actions TODAY rather than someone else's actions in 1840 or 1920.
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I have a British grandmother. The slaves and freedmen that were British Loyalist received reparations My British family was granted this
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Windermere Island - Wikipedia

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My American family has to deal with people like you. So sad.
I’m driving from TJ to Oakland today so I’ll be looking for you at the truck stops along the 5 Bocephus.

And no, I don’t have any bricks of cocaine in my trunk just soccer balls.
 
Ellejustus said:
Remember, today's topic is about, 1) The unfair treatment of the WNT players from 30 years ago up to today. 2) The mistreatment of young female soccer goat athletes and how wrong their treated so they choose to go "full time" at a cost of parents at $15,000 a year (according to Hope Solo). Plus, how race is 100% an issue in soccer. Nothing else on the docket today :)
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Race and gender are not an issue in soccer. The market determines your worth. That's why Alex Morgan and Alex Long don't make the same amount of money.
 
Ellejustus said:
12 year old did. She did the interviewing and asking the questions. I sat with her and asked a few questions myself. My dd is a smart cat Lester. So if a coach, any coach for that matter messes with a 12 year old little girl, it's my fault as the dad? Lester lives in 1950 everyone.
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Yes, Spicoli, it's your fault. Nobody interviews a 6th grader. You failed her as a father and protector from those wicked soccer coaches.
 
VegasParent said:
It's not just black people complaining about NFL coaching opportunities. It gets brought up by multiple ESPN talking heads so it's a topic that comes up every year to stir conversation. Is there validity to it? Yes, but not to the extent that it's made out to be. Black coaches are not going to complain publicly because they don't want to ruin their chance at getting one of those jobs one day. As for LeBron James, I don't know the context of why he said that but taking it on face value, I personally would not make that comment because NFL owners are paying their players millions of dollars. I don't believe plantation owners did that. But he is a very wealthy player who wants to be an NBA owner someday so we will see if he does things differently if he get that opportunity.
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Multiple ESPN talking heads... like Stephen A? Why do you think ESPN's ratings have plummeted and massive layoffs incurred? It doesn't stir conversation... it stirs controversy, because it's "racist" to have conversation. It's bullshit and millions of former ESPN fans realized it and changed the channel.
 
MacDre said:
I have a British grandmother. The slaves and freedmen that were British Loyalist received reparations My British family was granted this
en.m.wikipedia.org

Windermere Island - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org en.m.wikipedia.org
My American family has to deal with people like you. So sad.
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It's lovely you appreciate history. I wasn't a slave owner and you weren't a slave. No reparations for you, big guy. Tijuana to Oakland? Exchanging shithole for a shithole. Drive safely.
 
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