That’s what I thought. You are making my point for me...my daughter is not a soccer savant, top 1%, or whatever. She works hard, competes, and takes it very serious. She has fun with it.
Soccer is something my daughter does, not who she is. It’s a hobby. A thing. If she has the opportunity to play in college, she will then have quite a few years left to play competitively and have fun with the sport, teammates and friends...be a kid for as long as you can do those kid things before entering the big bad world.
Then 60+ years to live her life and follow her personal and career dreams and most importantly start and build a family of her own. Her life and her journey. Soccer is not in her “dreams”...she wants to do a lot of things in her life but playing professional soccer is not among them.
Being limited in opportunities for soccer, or growth opportunities in soccer, or the optimal training environment for soccer does not even resonate or register with me. Soccer is not life, it’s a kids game...it’s a fun activity, but as a team sport I do find it very rewarding and think there is immeasurable value in playing competitive team sports as a youth and that includes college.
If your argument is that if she had better things soccer wise - opportunities, training, growth, etc. than maybe she might develop into something she is not currently and then may want to play pro...Sure, I can get there and see how you get to that point. I agree we all improve with better education/training, opportunities, etc. I just hope my daughter has bigger dreams than chasing a $50k paycheck.