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My 06 son lost in the Finals at Cerritos this weekend. He is a keeper and had what may be his finest set of 6 games ever. Sadly made some errors in the Finals and they lost 4-3. Someone was consoling me saying he was fabulous because I looked annoyed and angry and I was. Not because he made errors, but that a team playing kickball won and that they coaches were bragging about how they worked so hard to develop the players.
Not hating on the victory because that team played hard! I just don't see what the kids get out of it in the long run beyond a medal and some bragging rights. It was an exciting game because of the events of the game, but frustrating to see because it stopped being fun to watch.
I love seeing these kids execute and perform like the big ballers on tv with the passing, skills and organization. The win at all cost on this level is not something I enjoy participating in at this stage of the game. Coaches need wins, but kids need development and it's such a hard line to walk balanced.
I'm glad that you noticed the true situation. This is why some of us parents of older players sound jaded and skeptical. We have been through a lot of the hype, sales pitches and lies and once you get to the end of the road you are left with what occurred not with what was supposed to occur and the two are oftentimes not in alignment.
Good luck to you and your player.