GoldenGate
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I personally have a bigger issue with win-now vs pay-to-play. The later is pretty much unavoidable. That said I think it's fair to acknowledge the downsides to pay-to-play, which there are many. For me, I wish pay-to-play produced a better product. Unfortunately the majority of players/parents do not value development over win-now and the clubs are catering to its customers wants. It's just unfortunate. This is why on the men's side so many players play in Europe instead of the MLS. I postulate that this is going to happen more and more on the woman's side over time. If that FCB vs PDA game didn't convince you, I don't know what will.
It is possible (and necessary) to emphasize winning and also develop players. I don't know why people think it is one or the other. The truth is winning is important because having fun is important, and there is nothing more fun than winning. If you want to win soccer games at the highest level, you need alphas, players who have a burning need to win, and that needs to be fed constantly. When you make children spend their youth dribbling through cones, juggling and making wall passes all day long, you deprive them of the most joyous part of the sport and drive most of the alphas out of it, while stifling the most important mental mindset for the rest. Seriously, people like you beat into little girls that winning isn't important their entire youth, but then you turn around and wonder why they don't win when they're adults? Meanwhile, the American youth clubs that you and your "beautiful game" buddies thumb your nose at for emphasizing winning over circus juggling keep cranking out winners.
Spain will not become an elite women's soccer power for this reason. They lack physical and mental alphas because their youth system drives them out of the sport. They're stuck with circus jugglers who fold every time against the countries that bring better and more mentally tough athletes. It is sad watching their body language when they have to defend a corner against a team like the US, England or Germany. They know they're losers, so they lose. They had 70% possession against Germany but were dominated and got mugged on a header. They had 60% possession and the lead against England but were dominated and got mugged again on a header. Passing the ball around the back and midfield all day isn't pretty soccer. It's an embarrassing fear of engagement.