No, people are not kneeling for the purpose of eliciting outrage or offending people. Rather, the only offense and outrage are from your end because you are outraged and offended by it. Kaepernick, Rapinoe and friends have said many times they did it to draw attention to a incredibly important issue, not because they want to piss people off. In order to reach your conclusion, you need to expressly disregard what they are telling you, including the Marine who made the recommendation to Kaepernick in the first place.
The truth is you do not believe that opposing racism and police brutality is important enough issue to justify the slight imposition on your sensibilities that maybe a handful of people are “imposing” on you for at most 2 1/2 minutes, although you don’t even need to watch it and you weren’t even there for it to bother you. Seriously, a person kneeling for a flag constitutes such a minimal imposition on your or anyone’s life that it’s a joke when people start freaking out like it’s the end of the world. Really, kneeling during the anthem constitutes no burden at all to you other than the burden you make it.
And yes, shaming Drew Brees is absolutely worth it. The more people like him who are “shamed” into keeping their opposition to civil rights to themselves, the fewer will do so in the future. That said, claiming Brees apologized because he was shamed significantly misrepresents what happened. He went public with his poorly-considered opinion and, in response, a number of his teammates offered their opinion, and did so very civilly. Drew issued his apology not because he was hammered on Twitter by the horde, but because he was educated by more thoughtful and civil teammates. So, when you claim that Brees was “shamed” into issuing an apology, it does a huge disservice to those who did anything but shame him into changing his feeling. It minimizes the civility of those who expressed an opinion that you just don’t want to hear. It allows to continue the false narrative that those “on the other side” aren’t civil, although 99.9% of them are. I know it’s a great excuse to ignore what they’re doing (and how) because someone else threw a brick through a window or burned down a Wendy’s, but it’s still just an excuse to avoid confronting what millions of people are saying in exactly the manner you claim they should.
It also does Brees himself a huge disservice by ignoring the admirable fact that he actually did change his mind. Claiming he was “shamed” is the only way for bigots to rationalize their disappointment that someone they believed to be on “their side” actually learned something that isn’t what they want to hear. It’s the same reasoning that people use to claim Biden was buddies with “Klan leader” Robert Byrd. They aren’t offended Byrd was a horrible bigot, they are using it to claim Biden is a hypocrite although at the time of the photo Bird had made huge strides to evolve and turn away from his previously hateful positions. And, although Byrd remained deeply flawed until the day he died, it ignores the very admirable quality in Biden that he continued to work with flawed people who were at least learning, and that he was also evolving as he became more educated. They ignore all of that because they are more interested in misrepresenting everything about the photograph so that they can make themselves feel better by rationalizing that maybe liberals are just as hateful as them, so it’s therefore ok to photoshop genitals onto Michelle Obama and make watermelon cracks while simultaneously claiming they aren’t racists.
If you were sincere in claiming you want America to be a better place, stop telling people to STFU or ignoring them when they civilly highlight issues that hold equal rights back, whether its Kaepernick and Rapinoe kneeling or New Orleans Saints expressing their opinions.
Maybe someday you will learn that what you want - - no kneeling or “bothering” you about the issue of racism that isn’t important to you - is never going to happen. Rather, your constant whining about it and refusal to accept the legitimacy of their cause only leads to more bricks. And, because I and others are done being polite, when they photoshop genitals onto Michelle Obama for no reason other than to be a**hole racists, they get bricks. And but for the fact that Brees apologized, they’d also get photoshopped photos of his vagina, just like all the the whiny p**sies who can’t handle kneeling.