I agree with Kicker that parents need to stop chasing 1st place medals. I think the big clubs can also help by not putting on these 4 day tournaments with big trophies as prizes and $20+ parking a day. Dad needs to stop chasing and stop paying for this nonsense. We need to get back to the basics and just go for development at the youngers. I love competition like the next dad but this has gotten out of hand, and we need the collective to come together and fix this wrong. There is a nuff blame to go around and many fingers to point to the wrong doers of this mess, but that's just ego. We need to all let go of that ego and come together to make soccer for EVERYONE. We really need to make it free for all the youth. No more $4000 a year club fees, no $$$ spent on private lessons, no more travel costs, no more hotel costs and no more personal trainers and nutrionist. No more playoffs for little kids and no more 1st place. It's fast time that these clubs that put on big tournaments with big trophies to the winners, ends. Parents are being forced to chase medals because the Docs at the big clubs need to bring in revenue and this is by far the best way to bring in the dollars.