I was responding to the prior post indicating concern about him being around his or other DD.
Sexual Harrassment at Surf San Diego
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I was responding to the prior post indicating concern about him being around his or other DD.
Surf coach hitting on underage girls is so 2002 --
Soccer coach gets prison for sex with girl - Creating Safer Havens
Henry Sosa, 42, was sentenced to state prison for having sex with a 15-year-old female soccer player. Sosa was a soccer coach for the club team "surf". The incident took place at a hotel in Irvine, California. Sosa had bought alcohol and got the young soccer player extremely intoxicated, before...
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what-happened
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You are right, I don't know you at all, and vice versa. Leading questions?
GLangevinito
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did i read that right? a few comments and a hug gets a guy sued now?
is that really the worst of it or is there worse in the complaint?
is that really the worst of it or is there worse in the complaint?
I think the "you lost some butter" comment stands out.
Definately an easy lawsuit in regular Corp environment.
I haven't seen the whole text of the lawsuit, but I got the tone that the Surf management was not responsive to her complaints, and may have only made them worse.
The first module of the Safesport training should include this: "If you need this course to teach you not to do anything you are about to see.... You probably should not be coaching kids."
Patandpats
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You did not read that right. Surf is being sued, not the coach. They are being sued because under labor law, when an employee reports bad behavior, a company has to be given the chance to correct the bad behavior. They chose not to. They didn't have to fire him, they just had to make sure it stopped. They did nothing to protect her and help her. Instead this is what happened and if you think this is nothing well that's on you I guess:
During one match, Becerra put his arms around Nelson and his cheek against hers to give her coaching advice, according the lawsuit. The complaint said that Becerra touched Nelson four more times that game, always seeking an embrace.
“It was incredibly uncomfortable and created a hostile work environment,” Nelson said in a recent interview, echoing allegations she made in her lawsuit. “I tried to limit interactions with him, whether in the workplace or over the phone.”
Nelson tried for weeks to meet with Becerra’s supervisors.
At first, his bosses downplayed Nelson’s complaints, the lawsuit said. She was told it would be “better on all fronts” if no one knew about the harassment, and it would be best if Nelson didn’t bring it up with Becerra so he wouldn’t retaliate against her, she said in her lawsuit.
Becerra remained Nelson’s supervisor, even after the complaints.
Nelson was later told that Becerra would finish out the season and then be terminated on the basis of poor performance — not sexual harassment. Nelson was later told that Becerra was never informed of Nelson’s complaints, the lawsuit said.
Jose has returned
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If all these things are true the jackass should get a few punches. Then a few more for being stupid to even say that garbage. How could he not know its inappropriate to do that crap to anyone. Anyone that tried to cover that up needs to go too.
outside!
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It sounds as if Surf DOC and management do not really understand the law regarding sexual harrasment or what is appropriate behavior on this matter. When these game incidents happened, their were girls sitting on the bench that must have witnessed this. Not a good look for a club that tries to attract the top female talent in the county.
Hundreds of Blizzard employees walk off job, fans boycott games
Now that is team work. Frat boy's need to respect the ladies......
Employees and their supporters gathered outside the gates of the company, which has been accused by the state’s Department of Fair Employment and Housing of fostering a “ ‘frat boy’ workplace culture.”
Now that is team work. Frat boy's need to respect the ladies......
Employees and their supporters gathered outside the gates of the company, which has been accused by the state’s Department of Fair Employment and Housing of fostering a “ ‘frat boy’ workplace culture.”
RedCard
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Very interesting article...
I tried to tell folks that you need some women leaders for the girls because the boys are acting like boys. Talk about a frat house. They had bait as well. Euro accent and the pick(s) for Grooming Center & Youth National Team for US Soccer out of the Kimball House in Chicago and they know all the college coaches. It's also alleged that the women employees were also harassed at the Kimball House that was once owned by the mob. Red Flag warning is understatement. I wonder why no women today after I complained to the higher ups 6 years ago?
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He clearly didn't say it in the right way.
Tom Brady has a great rule to follow to say it properly: