EL & Coach EOTL
Coach EOTL: Those who could most benefit from advice tend to be those least willing to accept it.
EJ: I never asked you for advice so please stop trying to help me
Coach EOTL: EJ is one of those parents who constantly screws things up for his kid and lacks the self-awareness to understand it
EJ: Thanks for letting everyone know more about me. I can see how honest all the Docs have been and have been so good to us. Just look at how the USSF company treated me and I'm the one screwing things up for my kid. That is the funniest thing I've read from you. LOL
Coach EOTL: Regardless, I’m not going after his kid;
EJ: Oh really?
Coach EOTL: Once you go back to blocking me and ElleJustus checks himself into psycho soccer parent rehab, I promise to lay off.
EJ: I;m not going to rehab ever coach, so lets play every day.
Coach EOTL: You will find peace only after you stop blaming others for where you are and recognize that you cannot control other people.
EJ: You don;t know me very well
Coacg EOTL:
Soccer clubs,
leagues, and coaches have always, will aways, and should always make decisions they believe best serve their own interests.
EJ: Coach, you nailed it with this quote of yours. That's what is one of the big problem imo. Non profit seeking it's own interest. They were serving themselves their own interests and when a business ((non-profit)) does that and does not put the customers interest first, it will fail. Trust me on that coach.
Coach EOTL: I am going to give you some advice
EJ: Funny how people ((coaches)) have all this advice for everyone. If someone doesn;t ask for advice, it's more about your ego and pride and what a coach thinks is best and 100% your opinion. Plus, your advice is really putting me down because you're protecting something that means a lot to you. it's obvious. I'm also protecting something that is way more valuable then a business and has way more value. It's a human life. It's a fragile little girl trying to make it on a planets for of people like you.
Coach EOTL: No college coach needs a headache like you,
EJ: Last I checked, I'm not playing. Also, go call her coaches outside of Surf and see what they have to say coach. All the D1 coaches who would like my dd to go to their school and play for them can call everyone single one of her coaches and they will all say the same thing about me except for a past Doc and one coach.
Coach EOTL: And no club coach will recommend a kid with a parent who is a headache like you
EJ: Man, I heard that from three Docs that I believe are really bad. That quote right there is all about Power & Control. The same coach talks like that to 16 and 17 years old girl and many feel trapped. Some have actually taken their own life over coach abuse.
Coach EOTL: The best thing you can do for your daughter is
stay off this site and
stop attending her practices and
games, because you will inevitably screw things up for her even worse then you already have.
EJ: More advice and all I can say is, "Fat chance I leave this site. I just got my stimulus check and just went Platinum.
Coach EOTL: The same holds true for any of her extracurricular activities.
EJ: Ok, thanks for more advice. Sounds like your trying to silence me for some reason.
Coach EOTL: If you were worried your daughter would not even make the team ((Tad's new 03 team)), the soccer dream is over.
EJ: The dream was over a long, long time ago and is was more of nightmare dealing with all this for three years from a company that took off and let us deal with their aftermath.