Your joke was offensive. A more decent person would have apologized. Talk about lack of objectivism.
Oh give me a break. You wrote this:
"seriously Tds is a thing. The day after the 2016 election I got crashed into by a hit and run driver. I chased her down in a pursuit. She made a wrong turn and got caught by security. She broke down in tears in my arms apologizing and freaking out about trump and what had happened and how she had no hope and California had to leave the union to protect us all."
Where in your message did it relay anything about your family or how your life was potentially at risk. You were ok to chase after her and hold her in your arms.
Man the drama runs thick with you. Like I said, I'm glad your family survived the accident.