If you have chosen <….>a DPL club going nowhere, over all other options in your area...you're not serious about your kids soccer future, let alone an ODP discussion.
Just going to assume you have a bone to pick with a specific club.
Otherwise, that reaction to an 11-12 yr old’s parents decision to play locally is a bit over the top. Who knows if there were other ‘top league’ clubs available (offers) back at tryout time in the Covid season. Not to mention that puberty does play a big factor at that age for some, so the player today may not be the same player from this time last year relative to their peers.
In fact, it’s a bit of the same self stroking that you just complained about. You must prefer your parenting choice of clubs.