They always say ecnl, mls next, ga or whatever top league it is those players/family spend a lot but my question is do you really pay less if your kid plays on lower leagues? hmmm In our soccer journey the only time it was not expensive when my kid played in core ayso because it was pure volunteer. Even ayso select and extra is expensive. I think you spend the same amount of money. I say regular club teams go on at least 6 tournaments a year. I think most of SW ECNL teams goes to at least 6 tournaments also 2-3 ecnl showcases and 3 local tournaments. So is it really more expensive to play in top leagues???
For boys, there are inexpensive and expensive options at every level. At the very top are fully-sponsored programs. Also, even “expensive” teams often extend needs-based scholarships. So it is not necessarily more expensive to play in top leagues.
IMHO families really should understand why they are paying premium fees and for out of town travel. Could be the right decision but depends on the individual player and finances.