Heard from a couple friends that Galway parent/coach conduct continued to be embarrassing this weekend at State Cup--red cards for coaches, parents being ejected, sidelines yelling at kids, etc. etc. Anyone care to attest who was there?
I have been out of the country for the last two weeks and just heard about the Albion Showcase incident today when one of my referee associations sent out the Cal South statement. I have known Ziggy, Albion South Coach, for years years and have NEVER had a problem with him yelling at my referee crews. I have had his spectators yell at me and Ziggy has always addressed the spectator quickly before I had to get involved. I refereed his teams, including the team involved in the incident, this past year and had no sideline or player problems. I worked a lot of Albion games this Fall season and had no coach or sideline problems.
Two points:
Point 1: To blame Cal South is stupid. I don't know if its been said before, but this was simply a Cal South "Sanctioned" Tournament that was played at a 3rd party Venue (Galway Downs) and hosted and promoted by a 3rd party club (Albion). Its a little unfair to blame Cal South for any of what happened at Albion/Galway because it was not sponsored or conducted by Cal South. The referee crew had everything under control until the 3rd party juvenile delinquent entered the field and then the Albion and Azteca parents.
Point 2: There are 3 primary groups to blame:
1) The parents of the dumbass kids that ran onto the field for being so inept at parenting that this kid thought running onto the field was an appropriate response. These parents and their kid should be banned for life, they don't belong in soccer.
2) All the parents that ran onto the field, a fight between two kids is the sole responsibility of the coaches, the players and the referee crew to manage. There is never a justified excuse for a parent to be on the field unless they have some sort of medical training AND were invited. Every parent that was on the field should be suspended for 1 season. Their kids can play, but those parents need to be punished.
3) The Azteca coach for allowing a culture to exist on his team where parents of dumbass kids could find a home.
Neither the venue, the tournament, nor Cal South have any responsibility for the actions of grown ass adults and their dumbass children. Zero. A code of conduct exists.
Two points:
Point 1: To blame Cal South is stupid. I don't know if its been said before, but this was simply a Cal South "Sanctioned" Tournament that was played at a 3rd party Venue (Galway Downs) and hosted and promoted by a 3rd party club (Albion). Its a little unfair to blame Cal South for any of what happened at Albion/Galway because it was not sponsored or conducted by Cal South. The referee crew had everything under control until the 3rd party juvenile delinquent entered the field and then the Albion and Azteca parents.
Point 2: There are 3 primary groups to blame:
1) The parents of the dumbass kids that ran onto the field for being so inept at parenting that this kid thought running onto the field was an appropriate response. These parents and their kid should be banned for life, they don't belong in soccer.
2) All the parents that ran onto the field, a fight between two kids is the sole responsibility of the coaches, the players and the referee crew to manage. There is never a justified excuse for a parent to be on the field unless they have some sort of medical training AND were invited. Every parent that was on the field should be suspended for 1 season. Their kids can play, but those parents need to be punished.
3) The Azteca coach for allowing a culture to exist on his team where parents of dumbass kids could find a home.
Neither the venue, the tournament, nor Cal South have any responsibility for the actions of grown ass adults and their dumbass children. Zero. A code of conduct exists.
CAL south is part of the problem, a big part you can't just say they only scantioned the event and don't have any responsibility.
CAL south is part of the problem, a big part you can't just say they only sanctioned the event and don't have any responsibility.
I reject that nonsense.At @espola, stay the "f*$%" off the field. Let the coaches and refs handle it. Once you set foot then another parent will and the ref's lose their ability to control anything. By the time some kid cold-cocks yours, there is nothing you can do. Stay off. PERIOD!!!!
I reject that nonsense.
As a referee (I don't think you have, but correct me if I'm wrong), our worst fear is parents and spectators entering the field during a melee or fight. We (referees and coaches) can handle the players and the occasional juvenile delinquent. Once adults enter the playing field its a cascade effect that creates chaos. I reject your rejection as ill advised as its both against the rules and illogical.
@watfly, Agree, but that is not what 90% of the posters here believe. They believe that Cal South is some omnipotent entity that can stop this kind of crap from happening with a magical hand of God. What happens next and how Cal South will engage in the review and punishment process under its PAD process is on Cal South's shoulders and so far, it seems that the preliminary suspensions are valid and the process is moving forward under the rules of Cal South and US Youth Soccer.
May be they think that way but IDK. I get the sense that many of the posters feel like Calsouth hasn't addressed serious bad behavior from clubs, coaches, parents, refs and players in the past which has created an environment where bad behavior is tolerated. I was very skeptical how Calsouth was going to respond in this situation. Its response was better than anything I would have expected. Now they have to follow through.
My son has been punched in a game a couple times (1st time the ref waived it off, the 2nd time the ref gave advantage despite the fact the punch dropped my son and never came back to issue a card). Never once have I run on the field to confront the puncher or tried to start a fight with the other parents (although I may have said something to the ref afterwards). However, if my son was ever seriously injured in a game you can bet that I will run onto the field to tend to my kid, the ref doesn't have medical authority over my child. Most competent refs are going to wave the parent on anyway. Only a ref with a very misguided sense of authority would prevent a parent from coming on to the field for a seriously injured child.
morals. ethics. brain cells. common sense. testosterone. That's a decent startMany years ago when I was our club's representative to the Cal South annual meeting in LA, one of the items up for discussion and vote concerned re-organizing the whole PAD process. The measure passed. After the meeting, I spoke with the former PAD chairwoman and asked her about the background of the issue. She said that some members of the board were upset that some powerful coaches and administrators (that's how she described them - I have no way to verify it) who were friends with the board members had been punished with suspensions and fines by the old PAD. We didn't really have time to get into details, and I took it with a grain of salt. However, over the years, we have seen discussed on this forum many instances where the Cal South BOD said one thing one day and then reversed itself soon after. I don't know why that should happen.
As for the latest tournament issue - it seems to me that the two identified miscreants were associated with the Azteca team, and yet many here are posting opinions that Albion (team, coach, club, parents, etc) should be punished. What am I missing?
morals. ethics. brain cells. common sense. testosterone. That's a decent start
Many years ago when I was our club's representative to the Cal South annual meeting in LA, one of the items up for discussion and vote concerned re-organizing the whole PAD process. The measure passed. After the meeting, I spoke with the former PAD chairwoman and asked her about the background of the issue. She said that some members of the board were upset that some powerful coaches and administrators (that's how she described them - I have no way to verify it) who were friends with the board members had been punished with suspensions and fines by the old PAD. We didn't really have time to get into details, and I took it with a grain of salt. However, over the years, we have seen discussed on this forum many instances where the Cal South BOD said one thing one day and then reversed itself soon after. I don't know why that should happen.
As for the latest tournament issue - it seems to me that the two identified miscreants were associated with the Azteca team, and yet many here are posting opinions that Albion (team, coach, club, parents, etc) should be punished. What am I missing?
In High School Soccer, it is an automatic red for a substitute to leave the bench after a altercation between 2 players takes place. It doesn't matter if they "were just running in to break up the fight". Automatic red.
Even granting the benefit of the doubt to the subs (that they wanted to quell the fight), I agree with the sanction because in every case, having more people run into the melee area just makes things worse. Every parent that left their chair and entered the field deserves to be punished whether or not they wanted to "help". Although the 2 initial perpetrators were from Azteca, we should still be punishing the Albion team as well. It takes two to tango. remove the Albion parents from entering the field (minus the 1 dad of punched kid) and this situation de-escalates much quicker, and every spectator that entered the field removed from the game and the game continued.