MicPaPa
GOLD
First of all, I Hate to disappoint you but you didn't get it straight. Had you read the thread before chiming in you would have found this has nothing to do with my kid... didn't play in blues cup 2019, not of the age group in question and has never seen a goat, let alone played one...and jumping to this conclusion because someone disagrees is simple and small.So let me get this straight. You are upset about a goat team that joined a tournament and got in the way of your DD’s team from advancing and took away the possibility of you guys winning? One thing I’ve learned is that kids develop more from losses against really good teams than winning the easy teams. If you wanted to win, why not join the lower tier of the tournament and just run through all those teams so your team can lift up a trophy. Personally for me those games where my DD’s team wins by 7+ goals are meaningless for their development. It’s when they face the best of the best that I’ve noticed they grow and develop to become better next time. For example our team plays against a lot of boys teams over the summer where some spanked us bad. We got the opportunity to play the 2010 TFA boys who won the state cup top tier last year. They beat us 7-0 but let me tell you the girls grew after that game. We just played the Eagles 2010 girls last Sunday and let me tell you it was a battle. We lost a close 2-1 game but the way our girls played I couldn’t be more proud of them. We’ve come along way from initially losing 15-0 to a team like the Eagles to now being able to compete against the best teams in the nation. Appreciate the tough competition because it will make your DD and her teammates grow their game that much faster.
For me, this has everything to do with disagreement with tournament directors allowing stacked teams to play in prestigious national tournaments, period.
I'd say the ones obsessed with winning are those who have to stack teams to get there.
I have no problem with boys teams, pick up friendlies, or stacked teams for that matter... My kid has trained and played with boys teams for years, achieving some of her best growth. Also, played on many stack teams in 3v3 and Beach tournaments.
In my opinion, prestigious tournaments such as Surf Cup, Blues Cup, Manchester etc. are no place for non-organics stacked teams putting on a clown show.
We'll just have to agree to disagree.