NoGoal
DA
This is my take, if the ultimate goal is women college soccer....which should be 99% of the parents/readers in this forum. There is no rush to play Girls DA at U12, U13 or even U14. "IF" your DD is a great little player and has a great club coach who knows how to develop players, along with doing skills training, training on her own (parent supervising), speed and agility. She will be fine, unfortunately....eventually, she will need to make the leap to a Girls DA team no later than U15, because she will need to play at a faster pace, deal with physical players, and most important be seen by the greatest amount of college coaches.Put aside travel (which is probably naive), but if you've got a kid who loves and is dedicated to soccer and are lucky enough to have a DA club nearby which for So Cal is now just as or more likely than having an ECNL club nearby, make it, and get comfortable with playing time, how drastically different (at least at the pre-high school years) are you assuming it is in terms of cost and time? Say your high quality but non-DA club practices 2-3 times per week, plays league games and tourneys all over So Cal in San Diego, OC, LA and Ventura counties, you do outside training once a week, and your team plays lot of tournaments including frequently 3-5 games in a single weekend. Now maybe you're trading the separate outside training once a week (and its cost) for a 3rd or 4th (very high quality if you buy into everything) practice and freeing yourself up from the frequent 4-5 game per weekend slog. Based on the only info someone has put up here of about $2800 for a non-funded DA and assuming no scholarship--that's say $500-$1000 more for the year (again the hole here could be travel but looks like there are a lot of So Cal DA teams) but you're not paying ref fees, uniform fees and maybe cutting down somewhat on outside training. I guess it all depends on the circumstances but doesn't seem so obviously drastically different in terms of cost and time, at least for the younger ages of DA and at the younger ages you're not giving up high school sports...Shoot this full of holes, lots of people trying to figure this new thing out, but in any event I wouldn't assume the only interest is because it's cool to say "My DD is DA" or because they think there's a real chance DD is going to be on the WNT or even the YNT.
There are plenty of players who are playing on a top team at ulittles who won't be there come uolders (U14 and older). I've seen it, previous uolders posters posted it and it will continue today and into the future.
If she is good player, then maybe U14....because, she will need a year to adjust to the speed of play.