Before we go any further, let’s look at Merriam-Webster’s definition of these two key words:
as·set [ˈa-ˌset also -sət]
noun
- A valuable person or thing
- Something that is owned by a person, company, etc.
I took the above definition from one of those new-agey articles (you’re not a fact guy, you prefer to make up opinions) suggesting that a house is an expense and not an asset.
You should try owning your house, if you can ever get one. When you do, it becomes an asset.
But it’s clear from your long posts that you have not had any success in the financial world, so you may have lost money on your house, in which case to you it’s a liability because you owe more than it’s worth.