MacDre
PREMIER
I apologize If I have offended you. You are actually one of my favorite coaches on this board. I can feel that your care about the game and kids greatly. I can feel your passion and your power to reach kids because you’ve touched me by your comments. I am who I am because of dudes like you. I also was not trying to be condescending, I was trying to show deference out of respect. I’m not an expert at soccer, I was recently exposed to the game by my daughter. I’m here trying to learn the game. I promise, I’m not hiding the ball.Please do not talk down to me like I do not know soccer. I know it is your style of trying to make yourself look like the smartest man in the room but it isn't necessary.
Playing a varsity sport for your school is completely different than club.
Emotionally for the players but you would say that is on them. Watch the College Cup or The Blue/Green Game and watch the fans, watch the players and see the emotion they bring to the game. You won't know the power of Daryl Dike because you choose not to watch. You need to depend on MAP's opinion of 4 or 5 teams are good and the rest stink because you do not watch. You miss Zak Stefen dominating games from the box, Tryston Blackmon being quietly the best player on the field,Julie Johnson Ertz killing at Santa Clara, and Rose LaVelle changing games at Wisconsin because you don't like it.
I agree it isn't a beautiful style and it is different but the passion does not change. What is the difference between how how a team from the second division in Brazil celebrate as opposed to Tufts Men winning the championship. The answer is their is not a difference. Trust me Tufts athletes are students first as are Stanford Men and Women. The pride does not change.
It is something you do not get from a college club sport with a volunteer coach, having to pay for your own travel and no backing from your school. I have personally felt the difference between college varsity and a college club sport albeit a long time ago.
You also do not get the Blue / Green game when those two universities play each other at the club level. I have seen it. Those kids play with pride and passion but the feel is different. The experience is different for the players
Last summer, I took my kid to Lyon for the semi-finals and finals of the women’s world cup. My kid and I were impressed with Rose Lavelle and Kady Diani of France. I thought Leke Martens and Tobin Heath were overrated; my kid remembers Heath as the player that over dribbled and missed 2 wide open shots on 2 separate occasions. So what’s so great about Tobin Heath? I’m sincerely trying to understand the game and assess where my kid falls.
The reason that I don’t watch college soccer and the NWSL is because I suspect that most of it is bad soccer and I don’t want my kid to be influenced by it. Similar to how I don’t want my kid exposed to the negativity I was exposed to as a kid-a bad environment is a bad environment. I love the passion of our kids. However, I think our kids suffer from extreme low expectations. For me, it’s not okay to say “our kids suck at soccer, but they sure are passionate.”
I understand I am fortunate for my child’s soccer experience and I would like your kid to have the same experience; why does this offend you?
I don’t want to minimize opportunities for amateur sports. I’m being passive aggressive with a certain group on this board (which includes myself)-they know who they are. I’m calling on them to do the right thing. If I wanted to destroy college sports I’d do it-I wouldn’t be on a forum debating the merits.