Cal Berkeley Coach (women) abusive

[dk_b]

Great school but it's Berkeley, not some amazing city where 18 year olds want to flock to. Palo Alto, Westwood, etc much more attractive city wise. I agree he could have advanced further on average in NCAA's but when you have to face SCU literally every single year in the first round because of the dumb travel reasons for early round games, that's tough too. SCU is good just about every year. Even Stanford have lost to SCU a few times I believe. Maybe, just maybe all the letters of support that's been sent to CAL AD and to the news station will one day be released? Probably not. It's always a 2 way street is all I'm saying. Another factor why some big time coaches may not want CAL is it really doesn't pay too(149k before taxes)well for a big d1 job especially living in the Bay Area. Other areas of the country, that's good. There is a reason he coaches at Mustang and runs some camp program.

That is really interesting commentary about Berkeley/Pablo Alto/Westwood/Santa Clara and what 18 year olds want. As someone who has spent a lot of time in all those communities (less in Westwood/West LA than in the others) and currently spends a lot of time with teenagers and young adults, I think there are a lot of 18 year olds who do want to flock to B-town (and certainly many who prefer something w/a less Berkeley vibe) - under normal times, it is rich mix of food, art, cultural and political history and intellectual vibrancy. For such a small city, it offers a ton (and has proximity to so much more). But I think you are either commenting about your own likes or painting young people with an awfully broad brush.

I agree with you re the unfortunate match-ups against SCU. That has presented a challenge for Cal (losing Indigo to an early red card was just brutal in 2017). And I agree that coach pay IS a big issue at Cal - it’s a problem throughout the athletic department. Berkeley is an expensive city and we know that other parts of the Bay are equally pricey.

You should encourage the people who have sent letters of support to make them public. They don’t need the AD’s or KTVU’s permission to release the letters. I’m surprised that that has not happened.

 

[MacDre]

Great school but it's Berkeley, not some amazing city where 18 year olds want to flock to.

Throwing shade at B-town. Next time you visit Palo Alto and cross the 101 to EPA keep your eyes in your rear view and run all stop signs or you could end up with a pistol in your face. You have earned yourself a special MacDre dedication:

 

[crush]

I’m beginning to think your synapses are short-circuiting. You made it quite clear that you were telling coaches you weren’t interested because your daughter was going pro out if HS. You were also quite upset that your daughter wasn’t playing much at a college showcase event because you had specifically told the coach that you weren’t interested in college for your daughter.

I have to respond. BTW, food was at Eves in Encinitas for wife's big 50th. Tasty food Moon was beautiful with the planets at the Moon Beach.

Purple response: I consider this old news but it gives gr8t insight into why I have to repeat the truth because liars like you who hurt kids and their families need to be dealt with. To all my dear friends 46, 43, Luis, Fact, EOTL, Grace, Messy, Outlaw, espola, Long Game, 808, Keeper dads and moms, Hound, dad, futbol dad and all the dads and moms out there, this is why I have to keep repeating the truth with satire. IT is involved with youth sports for girls and is a middleman or or was or still thinks he is to college game. I've been dealing with him since my dd was in 7th grade. He does not care about kids, trust me. Some dads share stories of the truth through satire. What is Satire? The use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other hot topics like, Socal Youth Soccer:

All the new people on here and old foes. Listen up and listen carefully, unless you have me on ignore. The Doc and his side kick were telling me and my goat that girls will go pro and not college. Do you honestly I think I believed them? They also told me if my dd left the GDA for high school soccer she would never make her dream come true. That is cruel and not unusual. They also said if you leave for that second tier washed league called ECNL, well you can kiss that other dream goodbye. That is cruel and stupid to say to 8th grader, Plus, no free handouts loser dad. Oh, and I never chase parents when they want to leave the family, just black list your ass......lol!!!! BTW, we know everyone in the industry so do your absolute best to........... STFU and while your at it, GTFO too asshat ((thanks Happy))

Red Response: I never spoke to the Doc your referring to EOTL about college at that time. Actually it was he that asked my dd where she wanted to ball in college in 8th grade because rules were changing and all he had to do was make a call and they obey him. Pay up and do as I say and all will go with your soul. My dd only said she wasnt sure she wanted to go to college ((math teacher in 8th grade was a complete ass and ruin any love she had for the subject)) and she knew to get past that exclusive 4.0 she needed to get an A in Math, Impossible for her little brain at the time. The pressure was insane.

I still think if they paid these girls real living wages and all the perks like the dudes, then my dd could make a run at it after high school.

 

[crush]

It is only my opinion, but if a player does not already possess the mental/emotional skills to cope with the pressures of all that it takes to play on a D1 team or cut throat team - then they should not put themselves at risk. The trouble is if a player has never faced adversity then they may never have had a chance to develop those coping skills. And some people have personality or anxiety disorders or unresolved trauma that makes me think that they will always struggle in a very competitive environment.

This whole forum is about opinion. I do like to add first hand experience to some of MOOs so were all good. Thanks for sharing BTW. Here's my opinion.
I have come to believe that most teens do not share their true feelings with their over bearing parents who demand kid gets 4.0+ and so one. For example, I share my heart on here and it takes a beaten but keeps on ticking. I have an open heart. I have been telling everyone on here that 8 out of 10 girls quit or dont finish school. Why? They dont have the skills to cope, that's 100% correct. Bingo!!! Then we put them in a situation that is impossible for them to handle. Let's all agree 8 out 10 quit? Why? Not all quit because of feeling a little stressed out trying to be goodie little two shoe and not let dad down and her new coach who yells a little. My dd and I need a little kick here and there but not ultimatums. I always thought this was a four year relationship with a degree to earn. Now we have first hand witnesses who say D1 girls soccer is more intense then boot camp in the Marines. Thanks for serving Sandy.

 

[crush]

What about Tom Cruise? Are you okay with the way he was yelling??

I was never a fan for personal reason and folks I know who know way more about Mr Cruise the church he attends. Not a nice guy is all I can say. He got a new girl who is 20 years younger.

Preach it bro!!!!

 

[Giesbock]

Well there’s a helluva start to the weekend!

 

[crush]

Well there’s a helluva start to the weekend!

What are friends foe bro? Listen man, were all in this together and help is on the way in a very big and I mean BIG way. I know many in the know so trust me. I say, get out of the way and let the pros help us. We ALL need help Giesbock. Happy Saturday. Get ready brah. Do you believe me now?

 

[Giesbock]

What are friends foe bro? Listen man, were all in this together and help is on the way in a very big and I mean BIG way. I know many in the know so trust me. I say, get out of the way and let the pros help us. We ALL need help Giesbock. Happy Saturday. Get ready brah. Do you believe me now?

I’m not sure what you mean about getting out of the way to let the pros help us? Please clarify...

 

[crush]

I’m not sure what you mean about getting out of the way to let the pros help us? Please clarify...

Figure of speech bro

 

[eastbaysoccer]

So you are saying Neil decided she would never play again, even if she improved to the point she was better than the player in her spot on the starting roster? If it isn't a coaches job to motivate and encourage players to get better, then the coaches that do manage to do that are probably the best coaches. When you have a player playing D1 soccer, come back and talk.

The best coaches are the ones that inspire and motivate. Players want to

Great school but it's Berkeley, not some amazing city where 18 year olds want to flock to. Palo Alto, Westwood, etc much more attractive city wise. I agree he could have advanced further on average in NCAA's but when you have to face SCU literally every single year in the first round because of the dumb travel reasons for early round games, that's tough too. SCU is good just about every year. Even Stanford have lost to SCU a few times I believe. Maybe, just maybe all the letters of support that's been sent to CAL AD and to the news station will one day be released? Probably not. It's always a 2 way street is all I'm saying. Another factor why some big time coaches may not want CAL is it really doesn't pay too(149k before taxes)well for a big d1 job especially living in the Bay Area. Other areas of the country, that's good. There is a reason he coaches at Mustang and runs some camp program.

Well maybe dump Neil and grab Tracy Hamm at Davis. She's on the rise and would take the job. Cal needs to get this negative press off their back and get the focus back on Football and Hoops.

 

[crush]

The best coaches are the ones that inspire and motivate. Players want to


Well maybe dump Neil and grab Tracy Hamm at Davis. She's on the rise and would take the job. Cal needs to get this negative press off their back and get the focus back on Football and Hoops.

Stud Player. The Cal Bears are always tough

 

[crush]

Sunday Sermon on Covid Standards at the work place. Gold standard my ass!!!! Too much pressure on so many people just to keep a job. If you dont adhere to the 6 x 6, your out of here. What a guy to work for.

I had a sales manager lady boss try to preach to me how fortunate I was to walk around LA trying to peddle yellow pages to small business owners. I swear I would walk in to businesses in Palos Verdes and San Pedro and show them the "Donnelley Directory." You all remember those commercials, "The book the phone company doesn;t want you to read" AT&T had a monopoly forever until 1984. 1984 anyone could print a phone book with ads in them. 60% margins, a real Cash Cow is all I can say. Well, the folks in the South Bay were pissed off because most of the books were never delivered the year I joined the crew. ABC News found them in trash dumpsters. The delivery crew got tired and skipped a few cities I heard later. I went out on the streets all excited and I got yelled & screamed at like no one's business from every business owner in San Pedro & PV, It was harsh Miss Manager said it was all my fault I had goose eggs ((no sales my first two weeks)) because I didnt handle objections right. We would roll play and roll play in her dam office every morning before I went out for my beatings. She went to all girls college in the Mid West and was going to be the boss of all the bosses, that was her goal.

How she rolled played with me in her office. Never went out to get yelled out with me either. I told myself if I ever get a chance to be boss I will always go out and take abuse with my reps.

Me: Hi, I'm Hank with Donnelly. I want to help you get new customers

Her: Oh great, come on back here and show me your directory

Real Life Objection

Me: Hi, I'm Frank with Donnelley. I want to help you get new customers ((clients if Lawyer or Dr))

Lawyer: Fuck off!!!

Me: Excuse me

Lawyer: You heard me, F off punk. BTW, did you see the news last night? No one in the South Bay received your dam book. I only advertise in Pac Bell. Good luck loser. I would look for something else to cheat folks in instead of telling them you deleiver phones to homes in the South Bay. Now get loss before I call the cops.

Me: Thanks for the intel

The good news, the DD sold to a private company owned by the O'Malley family and we gave refunds to all the small businesses in the South Bay. I worked hard and help change the culture and horrible sales training at head quarters. I took over the sales class and took the class outside in the real world. It was fun!!!

 

[dad4]

Sunday Sermon on Covid Standards at the work place. Gold standard my ass!!!! Too much pressure on so many people just to keep a job. If you dont adhere to the 6 x 6, your out of here. What a guy to work for.

I had a sales manager lady boss try to preach to me how fortunate I was to walk around LA trying to peddle yellow pages to small business owners. I swear I would walk in to businesses in Palos Verdes and San Pedro and show them the "Donnelley Directory." You all remember those commercials, "The book the phone company doesn;t want you to read" AT&T had a monopoly forever until 1984. 1984 anyone could print a phone book with ads in them. 60% margins, a real Cash Cow is all I can say. Well, the folks in the South Bay were pissed off because most of the books were never delivered the year I joined the crew. ABC News found them in trash dumpsters. The delivery crew got tired and skipped a few cities I heard later. I went out on the streets all excited and I got yelled & screamed at like no one's business from every business owner in San Pedro & PV, It was harsh Miss Manager said it was all my fault I had goose eggs ((no sales my first two weeks)) because I didnt handle objections right. We would roll play and roll play in her dam office every morning before I went out for my beatings. She went to all girls college in the Mid West and was going to be the boss of all the bosses, that was her goal.

How she rolled played with me in her office. Never went out to get yelled out with me either. I told myself if I ever get a chance to be boss I will always go out and take abuse with my reps.

Me: Hi, I'm Hank with Donnelly. I want to help you get new customers

Her: Oh great, come on back here and show me your directory

Real Life Objection

Me: Hi, I'm Frank with Donnelley. I want to help you get new customers ((clients if Lawyer or Dr))

Lawyer: Fuck off!!!

Me: Excuse me

Lawyer: You heard me, F off punk. BTW, did you see the news last night? No one in the South Bay received your dam book. I only advertise in Pac Bell. Good luck loser. I would look for something else to cheat folks in instead of telling them you deleiver phones to homes in the South Bay. Now get loss before I call the cops.

Me: Thanks for the intel

The good news, the DD sold to a private company owned by the O'Malley family and we gave refunds to all the small businesses in the South Bay. I worked hard and help change the culture and horrible sales training at head quarters. I took over the sales class and took the class outside in the real world. It was fun!!!

To be fair, the whole crew was out of work if they had a major outbreak on set. Anyone violating the covid rules was putting everyone else’s job at risk, not just his own.

 

[crush]

To be fair, the whole crew was out of work if they had a major outbreak on set. Anyone violating the covid rules was putting everyone else’s job at risk, not just his own.

To be fair, it was only two crew members who were under the 6 feet rule or two meter rule. That rule is broken every second of the day. So much pressure. At least he has a company to yell at. Special waiver for him but not for others?

 

[EOTL]

To be fair, it was only two crew members who were under the 6 feet rule or two meter rule. That rule is broken every second of the day. So much pressure. At least he has a company to yell at. Special waiver for him but not for others?

How do you know it was only the two? How do you know it wasn’t just the latest of a number of people breaking the rules and jeopardizing the jobs of everyone on the set? If staying six feet apart from your co-workers - especially when mandated by your employer - is too much pressure for you, you should not be employed. Are you so lacking in self-discpline, do you so lack empathy for the health safety of your co-workers, that you think people should be able to flaunt workplace social distancing guidelines with no repercussions?

I don’t care for Tom Cruise, but good for him. Sometimes an example needs to be made of denialists and those who don’t care about the welfare of others. The one thing he did wrong was to not fire them on the spot. Regardless, how many people do you think will violate the safety protocols/violate OSHA guidelines going forward?

 

[crush]

How do you know it was only the two? How do you know it wasn’t just the latest of a number of people breaking the rules and jeopardizing the jobs of everyone on the set? If staying six feet apart from your co-workers - especially when mandated by your employer - is too much pressure for you, you should not be employed. Are you so lacking in self-discpline, do you so lack empathy for the health safety of your co-workers, that you think people should be able to flaunt workplace social distancing guidelines with no repercussions?

I don’t care for Tom Cruise, but good for him. Sometimes an example needs to be made of denialists and those who don’t care about the welfare of others. The one thing he did wrong was to not fire them on the spot. Regardless, how many people do you think will violate the safety protocols/violate OSHA guidelines going forward?

I watched the long version of TMZ. Plus, they used to say in March that 6 feet stay rule was for folks without a mask on. You can sit next to your wife and eat without a mask, no? Happy Sunday to you and may whatever force your with slowly lose its power and then become like a nice little puppy dog.

 

[crush]

How do you know it was only the two? How do you know it wasn’t just the latest of a number of people breaking the rules and jeopardizing the jobs of everyone on the set? If staying six feet apart from your co-workers - especially when mandated by your employer - is too much pressure for you, you should not be employed. Are you so lacking in self-discpline, do you so lack empathy for the health safety of your co-workers, that you think people should be able to flaunt workplace social distancing guidelines with no repercussions?

I don’t care for Tom Cruise, but good for him. Sometimes an example needs to be made of denialists and those who don’t care about the welfare of others. The one thing he did wrong was to not fire them on the spot. Regardless, how many people do you think will violate the safety protocols/violate OSHA guidelines going forward?

Tell it to these guys too then. "Hey workers, back away, 6 feet only. mask or no mask. I figured knowing you so well that you would love that tone. Ah Ah, What's up Doc?

 

[EOTL]

I watched the long version of TMZ. Plus, they used to say in March that 6 feet stay rule was for folks without a mask on. You can sit next to your wife and eat without a mask, no? Happy Sunday to you and may whatever force your with slowly lose its power and then become like a nice little puppy dog.

TMZ, eh? Is that part of your tv rotation along and Newsmax, OAN and Keeping up with Kardashians?

 

[EOTL]

Tell it to these guys too then. "Hey workers, back away, 6 feet only. mask or no mask. I figured knowing you so well that you would love that tone. Ah Ah, What's up Doc?

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Those guys work on a movie set? Or are you saying the set of Mission Impossible has the same urgency as people ensuring fire, police and ambulance services, as well as essential workers can get where they need to go?

Why don’t you just get back to fat shaming people?

 

[crush]

TMZ, eh? Is that part of your tv rotation along and Newsmax, OAN and Keeping up with Kardashians?

No, I dont have TV. I dont have money to pay for it, seriously. Tough tough times right now for our family. I can;t even pay the $60 so my dd can get ranked for once in her life. For the record Doc___________. I looked on Google and typed, "Tom Cruise Rant" I then listen to a few people talk about who was there and why Tom was so pissed off at his employees. He feels the load of all of Hollywood and the stress is getting to him. All night everyone is calling him. His movie has to be a hit. No one is watching movies of these "actors" anymore. Hello mic fly!!!! Seriously bro, do you think only he should be able to make movies, money and provide cash for his ungrateful and mutherfudrukers employees of his who have to work in near death environments just so they can put fuc*ing food on the table and make sure little Sally and Susie soccer player can get a college education. We can;t have that now.

 

[dad4]

To be fair, it was only two crew members who were under the 6 feet rule or two meter rule. That rule is broken every second of the day. So much pressure. At least he has a company to yell at. Special waiver for him but not for others?

Not everyone shares your view on breaking covid rules.

You think “everyone breaks these rules so I should, too.”

Cayman Islands thinks “spoiled American wants to break the rules, she can quarantine in prison for 4 months.”

They’ve had a grand total of 311 cases. Even accounting for population, that’s less than 1/10 of the US rate. I guess the virus doesn’t virus there, huh?