No offense to your wife, but this mentality is what the big clubs prey on. IMHO this mentality can lead to burnout of your child in the long run. Talent doesn't ruin chances, but FOMO can ruin passion.
Dirty little secret. By the time kids reach 15-16 the truly passionate and talented kids are at least playing at an MLS Academy. Most (not all) of the other kids left playing for non-academy MLS Next and ECNL boys teams are passionate kids with average talent, because the other athletically gifted kids have moved on to other sports.