A little confused

You went on to make a real point of how YOU would never hesitate to react after chastising not me but another parent in my same boat for going to the media not the cops. That is passive aggressive and you are not that clever although you seem to think you can bullshit your way out of the corner you put yourself in.

You also said you called the police and took other “steps” and which you keep trying to steer the conversation away from after your ridiculous and obviously fabricated story of what happened. If you are being truthful explain again how your report to the cops went down exactly because you should be more outraged by that than anything else. I mean how could you leave it at that - you are a person of very swift action and that is acceptable to you? The cops blew you off and told you to have my daughter call them? Did not say they would look into it nor give you anyway to follow up? Gave you no number, case reference, officers name, nothing so that if she were to call in they would know the reports are related? It’s just does not add up.
 
You imply things and make pointed and or passive aggressive remarks so that you can retort back with outrage when someone calls you on your snarky posts. You do it on purpose so you can feign innocence and maintain deniability. As I mentioned, it’s not clever and I guarantee way more people see through it than are fooled by it.
 
Not sure why you are so hostile and angry - seriously not trying to be clever, you ate reading way too much into my posts. I know who I am and what I do and have done, not going to debate you on that and sorry it rubbed you the wrong way
 
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Soccer43 said:
Not sure why you are so hostile and angry - seriously not trying to be clever, you ate reading way too much into my posts. I know who I am and what I do and have done, not going to debate you on that and sorry it rubbed you the wrong way
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Do I really have to explain why this makes me angry and hostile? I don’t like liars for one.
 
Reminder to all this is not an “instead of” its an “and.” Issues like this need to be pressed from multiple angles if we want them to be fully handled. We tried counting on one entity already and it didn’t go well. The same things are going on in swimming right now.
https://www.ocregister.com/2018/02/16/investigation-usa-swimming-ignored-sexual-abuse-for-decades/
We need as many groups pressing as possible to put US Soccer in check because this is clearly widespread and we know Scheri is just one offender.
 
I've finally caught up on this thread and have a few thoughts:
  • Thank you to those posters who have been brave enough to mention the coach by name- that is helpful to parents who are reading here and want to keep their children safe.
  • I am so sorry that any girls have been subjected to this behavior from a coach- presumably one whom they used to admire. They did nothing to deserve it and they should now proceed however they choose. They owe nothing to anyone and it is not their responsibility to protect others. That is the responsibility of Albion, Cal South, and US Soccer.
  • If any adults on this thread have specific information that they would like to share with the public, it would be great if they did so beyond this board, as the readership of this board is limited. Unfortunately, without the names of anyone involved besides the coach, complaints may not be taken seriously. Reporting incidents that are posted anonymously on a discussion board is challenging if there are no details- names, dates, ages of the girls, etc. But if those with more information choose to share that information, it would be useful in preventing further abuse. But again, the responsible parties are the organizations who know about the harassment, not the parents of the girls, and not people who are reading the posts on this board.
  • Reporting sexual harassment and child abuse to the media can be a very effective approach and often more effective than going to the police. Look at most of the recent exposures of sexual assault- they started in the press (Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, and all of the politicians, for example). The press can bring public attention to a situation in a way that law enforcement cannot.
  • Fighting with each other seems senseless. Although many people on here disagree (build from the back vs. direct style; helicopter parent vs. laissez-faire; Albion vs. Surf; SD vs. OC vs. LA; GOP vs Dems), no one wants to see a child (or young woman) being harassed by a coach. Let's work together and not against each other.
 
My censored Surf review:

Imagine

You leave your car on a crisp spring morning and step onto a lush turf of fine Bermuda grass, perfectly trimmed to two and a quarter inches every morning. As the aroma of that fresh cut gently surrounds you, you gaze upon the team. This is Eden.


The practice commences and without words the athletes begin their dance.


Welcome To One Of The Most Spectacular And Unique Teams In All Of California. This Exquisite Tour de Force Represents The Best In San Diego Ocean Front Artistry. Set On the Polo Fields, This 100 team Powerhouse boasts 60% Representation Of Southern California’s Most Desired Soccer Forum. Surrounding An Incredible Bay With An Olympic Strength Coaching Staff Outfitted with Bespoke Pima Cotton Tracksuits: Blue of Blood, Black as their Stark Conviction. Find Peace and Strength in Our Corinthian Leatherbound Playbooks.

The Open Layout of the Polo Fields Delicately Nestled Betwixt Stables and the Local Feed Store is a Paradise of Sportsmanship

The Privately Ungated Parking Lot Can Accommodate Upwards Of 200 Cars Within Its Borders. This Is The True Crown Jewel Of Southern California. It Is So Rare To Have A Team That Is So Strong, Yet Still So Deftly Technical. Whether you Want to Kick in a Pickup Game on The Weekend, Participate in Our Famous Barbecues, or Reach Your Lifelong Goal of Playing For Houston Dash That One time, Our Team is For You. Experience What Many Can Only Dream About.

The Polo Fields are BYOB, But our Coaches Are Always Happy to Help a Parent In Need.


Welcome to Surf, We’ve Been Waiting Just For You.
 
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My censored Surf review:

Imagine

You leave your car on a crisp spring morning and step onto a lush turf of fine Bermuda grass, perfectly trimmed to two and a quarter inches every morning. As the aroma of that fresh cut gently surrounds you, you gaze upon the team. This is Eden.


The practice commences and without words the athletes begin their dance.


Welcome To One Of The Most Spectacular And Unique Teams In All Of California. This Exquisite Tour de Force Represents The Best In San Diego Ocean Front Artistry. Set On the Polo Fields, This 100 team Powerhouse boasts 60% Representation Of Southern California’s Most Desired Soccer Forum. Surrounding An Incredible Bay With An Olympic Strength Coaching Staff Outfitted with Bespoke Pima Cotton Tracksuits: Blue of Blood, Black as their Stark Conviction. Find Peace and Strength in Our Corinthian Leatherbound Playbooks.

The Open Layout of the Polo Fields Delicately Nestled Betwixt Stables and the Local Feed Store is a Paradise of Sportsmanship

The Privately Ungated Parking Lot Can Accommodate Upwards Of 200 Cars Within Its Borders. This Is The True Crown Jewel Of Southern California. It Is So Rare To Have A Team That Is So Strong, Yet Still So Deftly Technical. Whether you Want to Kick in a Pickup Game on The Weekend, Participate in Our Famous Barbecues, or Reach Your Lifelong Goal of Playing For Houston Dash That One time, Our Team is For You. Experience What Many Can Only Dream About.

The Polo Fields are BYOB, But our Coaches Are Always Happy to Help a Parent In Need.


Welcome to Surf, We’ve Been Waiting Just For You.
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I totally understand why this was censored. A complete waste of time to read. Stick to your memes.
 
With the 4th month anniversary of this thread coming up tomorrow and DA regular season coming to a close in a few weeks, I thought it was a good time for throwback Tuesday.

Did anything Goldenfjord say pan out? What about any of the rumors spread by Allstarsoccer310, RambOcamandO and friends.

Would it surprise anyone to know that a lot of these false rumors started with the Business Women of the Year?
 
As some of you that have DM'd with me know, the person that wrote a lot of these negative messages is clearly messed up and I want to prevent her from ever bothering anyone again simply because their child plays soccer for fun.

It started when I was able to find out the identity of Really!?! who had been badmouthing some of my friends on this forum. I let the people hurt by Really!?! deal with him and I inherited his screen name. But in the process it came out that AllStarsoccer310 had been feeding Really!?! information including names of children. After discovering the true id of AllStarsoccer310, who admitted to being Goldenfjord and RambOcamandO she was confronted by a parent on her team who outed me as being the person who discovered her true id. So she turned her anger on me, a person she does not even know. (Never been on the same team and don't recall ever meeting her). In DMs she has made fun on my kids and called my kids club trying to get me in trouble. She used her real name, admitted her screen name and the phone number of the call matches.

This is why I am mentioning this on the Forum - After my club told her that they did not know anything, someone called the club again pretending to be from the Forum and used the name Sam. Sam demanded my personal information, said that I had threatened a poster and stated that a lawyer had contacted the site to get my IP address. The phone number used matches one for a Sam Burrell and looking at his Facebook page shows he is in a relationship with a Kerri Heinze. Kerri Heinze's linkedin account shows that she works for Care Medical Transportation in San Diego. Meg McCool a parent on the 04 Albion DA is the COO of Care Medical. I confirmed with Dominic that he does not know anything about this issue and has no one working for him by the name of Sam. And of course I did not threaten anyone. So if anyone ever contacts you claiming to be from the Forum, DM Dominic first.

Next a lawyer who is in-house for a biotech company called my kids club to demand my information. The name matches the phone number.

I believe Meg McCool did all this to try to get my kids club to drop them. It is very easy for her to find out my information since she knows which club my kids play for and my name.

I recently learned that she has also told a coach at another club that I have no ties to lies about me. And since my club encouraged me to tell Albion that she was the one that was jeopardizing a police investigation and badmouthing Albion and her dd's own teammates, parents and a sibling with a disability, I am sure she has told them lies about me. I did reach out to Albion whose attorney responded by saying thanks since she jeopardized a minor's safety, but never followed up with me despite saying that he would; I wanted to provide them with indisputable proof.

So I just want Meg McCool to know that if she has a problem with me, she knows where to find me this weekend and every weekend. I will gladly give her my information as I welcome all of the truth coming out. I take her accusations about me very seriously. Leave my kids club and the parents that know me out of this.

This site provides a lot of valuable information for parents that want to help their children enjoy the beautiful game of soccer. Too bad there is always someone with a hidden agenda that tries to ruin it.
 
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I could be wrong but not sure anyone cares about all this drama
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Just trying to warn people that if someone calls claiming to be from the Forum, confirm it first. Although I would hope that if a parent is giving someone that she does not know your child's name and making fun of people with disabilities, some people care.
 
I don't know you or your kid(s), and I don't know the lady you reference, or her kid(s), but I do know that there is a high chance that they kids will be the ones paying the price for adults not being able to get along and spewing shit on a soccer forum. Perhaps the adults on this forum, including you, should take a step back and make sure that their posts aren't hurting any kids, who by the way have NOTHING to do with this forum. We are the adults, let's start acting like it.
 
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