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We no longer have a player at Albion, and DD long ago said she would never play there due to ML's big mouth.
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She was good maybe the first year but then she drank the Kool Aide.
I saw him a couple of months ago at the north east side of Balboa park near Rosevelt. Wearing the Albion outfit, looked like he was making a move on a woman. Almost stopped. I'm not the only one.
My kid never liked TS or NG, she is good at judging at first contact.
Did your dd play for him?
Why did you notify the media and not report it to the police? Thank you for doing something. The reason why these individuals continue to perpetrate these crimes is because people don't do something. Based on what people have posted this should be a police investigation at this point.
Pervsmasher
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Why don’t YOU report it to the police? No technical crime was committed against this mans child or mine. Why don’t YOU and everyone here with all the advice and concern all call the cops with your suspicions before telling US what to expose our daughters too? YOU ALL can pick up the phone, call the cops and or media and tell them you are a concerned citizen who would like this looked into. Quit telling us what to do and take action yourselves please. If every know it all self righteous poster here that has tried to guilt me about this actually called the cops as a concerned citizen the cops at that point would have to question Albion about Sheri and the reasons for his firing. This would likely force the club to address it.
As a community you can HELP us as victims and victims families rather than indict us for not performing up to your standards in dealing with this despite you all knowing nothing about our circumstances, the logistics involved, etc. Our kids are grown and gone and have moved past this. Pick up the phone and call the cops and media yourself, then yo can be critical of me. By the way after discussion with another parent and friends, I will also be speaking with the media solely about my concern that this is being swept under the rug and that this person still may be a threat while this remains hidden. But if you that are so concerned want to make a difference then rather than condemn me or my child, pick up the phone yourself and call the cops and media demanding a look into this. If enough speak up, they will react.
GoldenFjord
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I am deeply sorry that these posts are coming across as damning. I’ve been in contact with multiple news outlets regarding what has been going on. As the thread progresses we are going to be getting a lot of third parties that will exclaim “Oh heavens someone ought to do something!” When many of us are actively doing many things. This is the price of interacting with soccer moms. People will feel obligated to make it quite clear that they are outraged and offer useless suggestions long after what was suggested has been taken care of. That’s how they can all tell themselves that they faced injustice and personally saved the day: by saying, “now what you should do is x,” and patting themselves on the back. Hell I did it too, but I have now carried out most of the things on the to-do list.
We are going to see a lot of these comments. I know it is taxing and forces you to face the sickness you are trying to put behind you. All I can do is offer support and urge you to ignore them. They are saying it so they feel better, not you.
Stay strong.
I did. I don't waste time about taking action in these types of situations. I was just wondering why you went to the media and not the police. Although I already took steps about this I am not the one that has any concrete evidence so what I have to say is not as significant as someone that has concrete evidence. If he is doing this with a former player that just turned 18 I doubt he has the discipline to not also be approaching those that are minors. Don't take everything so personally - this isn't an attack on you so you don't have to be defensive about it.
Pervsmasher
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Since you don’t waste time taking action, Who exactly did you report this too? Surely they gave you a name of who you can follow up with? Please post that officer or detectives name so that others can call him. In fact I will call him now that you have opened a case. Certainly you went straight to the cops right? Post the name of the officer we should follow up with, you would think they are already looking at this closely as several people say they reported it or are going too.
You know, I am not the problem right? I have not publicly attacked or criticized you so let's stay focused on the actual issue.
When you call child protective services they have to have the victim information in order to open a case for investigation.
When you call the police they want a potential victim(s) and some evidence to open up the case, not just rumors posted on an internet forum. I was told to encourage those more closely involved with more details and information to contact them.
When you call child protective services they have to have the victim information in order to open a case for investigation.
When you call the police they want a potential victim(s) and some evidence to open up the case, not just rumors posted on an internet forum. I was told to encourage those more closely involved with more details and information to contact them.
Pervsmasher
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You called the police yet got no information, name or number for you to give those you are directed to “encourage” to come forward? Your story sounds like bullshit.
Lambchop
GOLD
Child Protective Services is not the "police department". As an educator I have called CPS about a different matter but just as serious, only to be told to contact another agency because of needed additional information. What Soccer 43 said is correct.
Pervsmasher
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So you are telling us that SDPD told you when you supposedly reported this that unless you have victim information they will not open a case or take any actio
read it again Mr or Ms Helper.....he specified about what the Police told him.
Pervsmasher
SILVER
And as an educator certainly you are trained to report anything that looks suspicious whether you have. Concrete evidence or a victim and the police will theoretically look into it, correct? Just asking because I find the other posters supposed interaction with SDPD hard to believe and as an educator you may be more tuned into how these things work.
Pervsmasher
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Someone posted this in another thread:
“To think that a coach should ignore gossip, discussion or rumors potentially about child sexual abuse of player in his club, simply because he did not get the information first hand, is insane and helps perpetuate this evil.”
This is what soccer43 claims the SDPD are doing.
“To think that a coach should ignore gossip, discussion or rumors potentially about child sexual abuse of player in his club, simply because he did not get the information first hand, is insane and helps perpetuate this evil.”
This is what soccer43 claims the SDPD are doing.
Look, I have empathy for all involved, but it sounds like you are getting aggressive towards someone who allegedly took some action.....why?
Pervsmasher
SILVER
Because they only mentioned taking action AFTER I called them out for the hypocrisy of telling me what to do. Yes, I am very aggressive when my character is questioned. If you believe, this soccer43 that’s up to you, I do not believe he called the cops to report this and they told him to go away without a victim in tow. Why you ask am I aggressive? Because I think he is lying and has done nothing but question me and my actions, much like you.
Pervsmasher
SILVER
His self righteous and passive aggressive post of “in situations like this I never hesitate to take action” pissed me off too be honest and I don’t buy his cockamamie story about his supposed interaction with SDPD.
I did not attack you or your character - I was only curious about why you contacted only the media and not the police. I never said anything about your character. I was making a general statement about how these individuals continue to perpetrate their crimes against vulnerable children. It was not a statement about you or to you. I also said that it sounded like a police issue based on what people were saying. I never said you should have called the police. Quit being so defensive and hostile. My post was not directed at you so get over it.