A little confused

Pervsmasher said:
So you are telling us that SDPD told you when you supposedly reported this that unless you have victim information they will not open a case or take any actio

read it again Mr or Ms Helper.....he specified about what the Police told him.
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And as an educator certainly you are trained to report anything that looks suspicious whether you have. Concrete evidence or a victim and the police will theoretically look into it, correct? Just asking because I find the other posters supposed interaction with SDPD hard to believe and as an educator you may be more tuned into how these things work.
 
Lambchop haven't you seen clipboards thrown at children? I bet you have not reported that yet continually complain about it here.
 
Someone posted this in another thread:


“To think that a coach should ignore gossip, discussion or rumors potentially about child sexual abuse of player in his club, simply because he did not get the information first hand, is insane and helps perpetuate this evil.”

This is what soccer43 claims the SDPD are doing.
 
Pervsmasher said:
You called the police yet got no information, name or number for you to give those you are directed to “encourage” to come forward? Your story sounds like bullshit.
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Look, I have empathy for all involved, but it sounds like you are getting aggressive towards someone who allegedly took some action.....why?
 
Kicker4Life said:
Look, I have empathy for all involved, but it sounds like you are getting aggressive towards someone who allegedly took some action.....why?
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Because they only mentioned taking action AFTER I called them out for the hypocrisy of telling me what to do. Yes, I am very aggressive when my character is questioned. If you believe, this soccer43 that’s up to you, I do not believe he called the cops to report this and they told him to go away without a victim in tow. Why you ask am I aggressive? Because I think he is lying and has done nothing but question me and my actions, much like you.
 
Kicker4Life said:
Look, I have empathy for all involved, but it sounds like you are getting aggressive towards someone who allegedly took some action.....why?
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His self righteous and passive aggressive post of “in situations like this I never hesitate to take action” pissed me off too be honest and I don’t buy his cockamamie story about his supposed interaction with SDPD.
 
Soccer43 said:
Why did you notify the media and not report it to the police? Thank you for doing something. The reason why these individuals continue to perpetrate these crimes is because people don't do something. Based on what people have posted this should be a police investigation at this point.
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I did not attack you or your character - I was only curious about why you contacted only the media and not the police. I never said anything about your character. I was making a general statement about how these individuals continue to perpetrate their crimes against vulnerable children. It was not a statement about you or to you. I also said that it sounded like a police issue based on what people were saying. I never said you should have called the police. Quit being so defensive and hostile. My post was not directed at you so get over it.
 
You went on to make a real point of how YOU would never hesitate to react after chastising not me but another parent in my same boat for going to the media not the cops. That is passive aggressive and you are not that clever although you seem to think you can bullshit your way out of the corner you put yourself in.

You also said you called the police and took other “steps” and which you keep trying to steer the conversation away from after your ridiculous and obviously fabricated story of what happened. If you are being truthful explain again how your report to the cops went down exactly because you should be more outraged by that than anything else. I mean how could you leave it at that - you are a person of very swift action and that is acceptable to you? The cops blew you off and told you to have my daughter call them? Did not say they would look into it nor give you anyway to follow up? Gave you no number, case reference, officers name, nothing so that if she were to call in they would know the reports are related? It’s just does not add up.
 
You imply things and make pointed and or passive aggressive remarks so that you can retort back with outrage when someone calls you on your snarky posts. You do it on purpose so you can feign innocence and maintain deniability. As I mentioned, it’s not clever and I guarantee way more people see through it than are fooled by it.
 
Not sure why you are so hostile and angry - seriously not trying to be clever, you ate reading way too much into my posts. I know who I am and what I do and have done, not going to debate you on that and sorry it rubbed you the wrong way
 
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Soccer43 said:
Not sure why you are so hostile and angry - seriously not trying to be clever, you ate reading way too much into my posts. I know who I am and what I do and have done, not going to debate you on that and sorry it rubbed you the wrong way
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Do I really have to explain why this makes me angry and hostile? I don’t like liars for one.
 
Reminder to all this is not an “instead of” its an “and.” Issues like this need to be pressed from multiple angles if we want them to be fully handled. We tried counting on one entity already and it didn’t go well. The same things are going on in swimming right now.
https://www.ocregister.com/2018/02/16/investigation-usa-swimming-ignored-sexual-abuse-for-decades/
We need as many groups pressing as possible to put US Soccer in check because this is clearly widespread and we know Scheri is just one offender.
 
I've finally caught up on this thread and have a few thoughts:
  • Thank you to those posters who have been brave enough to mention the coach by name- that is helpful to parents who are reading here and want to keep their children safe.
  • I am so sorry that any girls have been subjected to this behavior from a coach- presumably one whom they used to admire. They did nothing to deserve it and they should now proceed however they choose. They owe nothing to anyone and it is not their responsibility to protect others. That is the responsibility of Albion, Cal South, and US Soccer.
  • If any adults on this thread have specific information that they would like to share with the public, it would be great if they did so beyond this board, as the readership of this board is limited. Unfortunately, without the names of anyone involved besides the coach, complaints may not be taken seriously. Reporting incidents that are posted anonymously on a discussion board is challenging if there are no details- names, dates, ages of the girls, etc. But if those with more information choose to share that information, it would be useful in preventing further abuse. But again, the responsible parties are the organizations who know about the harassment, not the parents of the girls, and not people who are reading the posts on this board.
  • Reporting sexual harassment and child abuse to the media can be a very effective approach and often more effective than going to the police. Look at most of the recent exposures of sexual assault- they started in the press (Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, and all of the politicians, for example). The press can bring public attention to a situation in a way that law enforcement cannot.
  • Fighting with each other seems senseless. Although many people on here disagree (build from the back vs. direct style; helicopter parent vs. laissez-faire; Albion vs. Surf; SD vs. OC vs. LA; GOP vs Dems), no one wants to see a child (or young woman) being harassed by a coach. Let's work together and not against each other.
 
My censored Surf review:

Imagine

You leave your car on a crisp spring morning and step onto a lush turf of fine Bermuda grass, perfectly trimmed to two and a quarter inches every morning. As the aroma of that fresh cut gently surrounds you, you gaze upon the team. This is Eden.


The practice commences and without words the athletes begin their dance.


Welcome To One Of The Most Spectacular And Unique Teams In All Of California. This Exquisite Tour de Force Represents The Best In San Diego Ocean Front Artistry. Set On the Polo Fields, This 100 team Powerhouse boasts 60% Representation Of Southern California’s Most Desired Soccer Forum. Surrounding An Incredible Bay With An Olympic Strength Coaching Staff Outfitted with Bespoke Pima Cotton Tracksuits: Blue of Blood, Black as their Stark Conviction. Find Peace and Strength in Our Corinthian Leatherbound Playbooks.

The Open Layout of the Polo Fields Delicately Nestled Betwixt Stables and the Local Feed Store is a Paradise of Sportsmanship

The Privately Ungated Parking Lot Can Accommodate Upwards Of 200 Cars Within Its Borders. This Is The True Crown Jewel Of Southern California. It Is So Rare To Have A Team That Is So Strong, Yet Still So Deftly Technical. Whether you Want to Kick in a Pickup Game on The Weekend, Participate in Our Famous Barbecues, or Reach Your Lifelong Goal of Playing For Houston Dash That One time, Our Team is For You. Experience What Many Can Only Dream About.

The Polo Fields are BYOB, But our Coaches Are Always Happy to Help a Parent In Need.


Welcome to Surf, We’ve Been Waiting Just For You.
 
GoldenFjord said:
My censored Surf review:

Imagine

You leave your car on a crisp spring morning and step onto a lush turf of fine Bermuda grass, perfectly trimmed to two and a quarter inches every morning. As the aroma of that fresh cut gently surrounds you, you gaze upon the team. This is Eden.


The practice commences and without words the athletes begin their dance.


Welcome To One Of The Most Spectacular And Unique Teams In All Of California. This Exquisite Tour de Force Represents The Best In San Diego Ocean Front Artistry. Set On the Polo Fields, This 100 team Powerhouse boasts 60% Representation Of Southern California’s Most Desired Soccer Forum. Surrounding An Incredible Bay With An Olympic Strength Coaching Staff Outfitted with Bespoke Pima Cotton Tracksuits: Blue of Blood, Black as their Stark Conviction. Find Peace and Strength in Our Corinthian Leatherbound Playbooks.

The Open Layout of the Polo Fields Delicately Nestled Betwixt Stables and the Local Feed Store is a Paradise of Sportsmanship

The Privately Ungated Parking Lot Can Accommodate Upwards Of 200 Cars Within Its Borders. This Is The True Crown Jewel Of Southern California. It Is So Rare To Have A Team That Is So Strong, Yet Still So Deftly Technical. Whether you Want to Kick in a Pickup Game on The Weekend, Participate in Our Famous Barbecues, or Reach Your Lifelong Goal of Playing For Houston Dash That One time, Our Team is For You. Experience What Many Can Only Dream About.

The Polo Fields are BYOB, But our Coaches Are Always Happy to Help a Parent In Need.


Welcome to Surf, We’ve Been Waiting Just For You.
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I totally understand why this was censored. A complete waste of time to read. Stick to your memes.
 
With the 4th month anniversary of this thread coming up tomorrow and DA regular season coming to a close in a few weeks, I thought it was a good time for throwback Tuesday.

Did anything Goldenfjord say pan out? What about any of the rumors spread by Allstarsoccer310, RambOcamandO and friends.

Would it surprise anyone to know that a lot of these false rumors started with the Business Women of the Year?
 
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