Sounds a little like the old GOAT FC teams from the past. Congrats to Crowlar FC
They were probably before my time, but I've seen the goat profile a couple times on here. This age group gets very quiet for some reason and maybe that's a good thing? People get so caught up with winning and self serving opinions I think. Some of us are just fans of the game and watching these teams and players grow. We are all competitive I'm sure, but I truly think we put way too much emphasis on winning. It's great for the parents, but soccer is an all or nothing type of game. For instance, 1 goal is worth 50 basketball points and/or possibly 10 or so in football. One goal missed by an inch or hittting the cross bar is everything and many of these games are decided by 1 goal. I will be honest though and know the drive, the stress, the money, the experience is that much easier/sweet after winning, but I kind of hate myself at times for thinking like that. My daughter's growth should be most important.
What I really liked about This Crowlar Team is it was a mix and it was to get play time during a break. Is it healthy to have a structure where you're married to one team for a full year and/or for many of us years? Shouldn't part of our daughter's experience/growth also revolve around playing with a diversity of player types and styles of soccer where it's fine to fail and learn? My own daughter gets so attached to her team for instance that it takes her some time to adapt for a new team. It's just not the same, but if they are going to be elite level players, they need to learn how to make friends and blend with new teams/girls.
It's a good thing to mix the girls up as they learn about sportsmanship and knowing they may play with an opponent down the line. They also don't get stuck on a team that basically feeds just one or 2 dominant players. While there are outlying leagues like touch n go or latin leagues, I think we need more simple, unorganized games. Sure, we'll all have friendlies in ecnl coming up and maybe other ga or e64, etc. leagues, but I really wish we had more options for our kids to be able to just go play for fun/experience.
I have seen several girls that were brought up in latin leagues really excel with great touch and movement, but I'd love to see some simple fun tournaments with bring 9, 11, or 13 girls for 11 v 11 or smaller sized field games. Game training is more valuable imo than technical training, but sure, you need technical training too. I just see several girls with great technical skills that never reallly get to apply them or make them instinctive due to their position or due to fear of failure. I see girls that can rip a shot practically never shooting at the goal. I see smaller, great carrying skills on girls that don't understand how to contain a player yet. They can dive or tackle if close, but they don't understand defense. Even goalies should be on the field getting comfortable carrying and/or dribbling out of pressure.
I just keep hearing so much about burn out and injuries with the high level play and can't help, but see competitive tryouts, backroom deals with player bundles, full year commitments before high school soccer, so much emphasis on winning, etc. as I see girls that can't shoot or even collect well with their weak foot and/or can't shoot outside the goal box with authority or have never taken a corner kick or set play free kick, etc. I just see a lot of inefficient involvement for club soccer and it's expensive and overwhelming. I mean I can't help, but worry my own daughter is going to want to have a life one day in high school. Of course, work ethic is a virtue that you pray they have, but I find that my own daughter plays best when she is confident and happy. Confidence is the key to effort imo. The only problem is confidence can lead to comfort which is the enemy of progress!
I'm asking for more fun game options I guess with a diversity of players and styles. I mean to think that some extremely talented girls won't experience winning tournaments or big games, because they lack a few dominant players kind of sucks. We all play to win and winning is really damn fun, so if we want the best talent in the usa, I think more girls need to experience that. Rant over! LOL!
If any young player parents are reading this, I highly advise to make friends and have your daughter play games in multiple places with different girls. Force them out of their shells. I know I would do several things differently if I could even though I'm extremely blessed and happy with where my daughter is. She is happy, confident, and COMFORTABLE! My only complaint is the comfortable, because she should never be comfortable imo!