You're not making any sense. Are there bad coaches in the game? Yes. Let's work to get them out. But this has F-all to do with the responsibilities of the (unpaid, volunteer) TM. On some teams, the TM is the voice of reason and it is perfectly reasonable for scouts to talk to the them about players before they approach the family. On the boys side, this is the only personal info the scouts can get about a boy before jr. year.
If a TM is suggesting that your daughter's old man is crazy, maybe take that as a chance to look in the mirror.
Your supposed to be ignoring me. Are you a TM focomoso? I will do Q & A with you as well.
TM: You're not making any sense
Crush: I never make sense to the TMs
TM: Are there bad coaches in the game? Yes. Let's work to get them out
Crush: That's what I'm doing. I'm sounding the alarm TM and your not helping. Ignores me but decides to jump in about my problems with "some" of the TMs in youth soccer. Thank you for sharing the truth about the inner workings of the TM
TM: But this has F-all to do with the responsibilities of the (unpaid, volunteer) TM.
Crush: This is what I thought was going on when I filmed the TMs chatting it up with the college coaches. The Doc never told me the TM's responsibilities was to talk to the college coaches about what kind of human my dd was and her old man and their family behave.
TM: On some teams,
the TM is the voice of reason and it is perfectly reasonable for scouts to talk to the them about players before they approach the family
Crush: This is a big problem. I had no idea how bad it was but the more you and sockma share, the worse it gets. So basically, I pay the club $4000+ all the other sh*t that is over $10K all so the TM can share with the coaches the scoop before they talk to the players family? That was never, ever told to me but I did see the TMs handing out flyers and talking way to long. I'm sure coach get's the TMs phone number to chat later on what kind of human my dd is. No wonder no coach ever called our family. The voice of reason is the TM everyone. I spit my food out on that quote
TM: On the boys side, this is the only personal info the scouts can get about a boy before jr. year.
Crush: My sister in law is right and others on the boys side are right about the role to the TM. This is flat out wrong.
TM: If a TM is suggesting that your daughter's old man is crazy, maybe take that as a chance to look in the mirror.
Crush: Listen up focomos, you need to look in the mirror. TMs have no business talking to scouts about what they think of my freaking family or my dd, especially one's that I confront on their BS lies, gossips and maybe even some doing a little naughty with coach. Are you serious? This is way worse then I ever imagined.
People, this is not right. Basically, TM sockma and TM focomos are telling you the truth. Only they are the voice of reason and only they can share about what kind of human your kid is. If you kiss their ass, say thank you for all their volunteer work and never question them about where the money goes and actually where it went, they will tell the scouts your family is bad and their kid is not a good human. This is a cult and very expensive one at that.