I guess I missed the news accounts of Roger Goodell being knifed in the back by his wife's college roommate because her kid wasn't playing in the NFL. And, I missed the stories about multiple WNBA coaches sexually harrassing their players. And, I missed the reporting about all the softball and volleyball youth clubs not hiring any female coaches. And, I missed the bribery scandals in F1 racing for race locations. And, I missed the articles about youth baseball national leagues changing from one league format to a different league (DA) to a different league (ECNL) over the course of a few years. And, I missed the reports in youth hockey about how the national federation can't find high quality coaches to coach their youth national teams and scout because they require the coaches to live in Chicago and don't pay sh*t.
Soccer is no worse? Keep your head buried in the sand. There are systemic cultural problems with this sport in the US and it's time to discuss and figure out why.
Just because you haven't seen headlines doesn't mean there aren't the exact same issues in other sports.
All sports have warts and things you have to be willing to turn up your nose at to avoid the stench. Find the one(s) that your kid(s) enjoy (that you can afford) and do your best to stay out of the mud.
While USSF, USYS and USCS are FAR from perfect, I'd take any/all of them any day of the week over the AAU.