Agree with many of the points mentioned here. In US, we like and follow "flashy" players. We see evidence of that in many of our sports including Basketball, American Football, and now also in Soccer. During the competitive tryouts, players need to stand out with their Maradona turns and break-ankle type of dribbles to wow and leave hard impressions to get noticed and selected.
Keeping a ball, making timely passes, off-the-ball movements, occupying & defending spaces, and doing all the important yet underappreciated tasks are not recognized here in US. And this can be boring than players that are often taking on 1v1 and breaking ankles. So we end up with more of these types of flashy players in the overall rosters in USYNT and USWNT. Yes, being "flashy" sells with TV audience and advertisers. But this does not translate well in the World Cup type of competitions in the recent year because other countries have all caught up and now playing more team soccer at the highest level.
I think NWSL is starting to recognize this phenomenon at the professional level too. Many of the teams may still have some of the flashy US players in the attack, but they are now starting to scout and recruit from countries like Spain and Japan for the high soccer team IQ type of players in the midfields.