You described part of this problem in your post just before: the real issue with girls GK development in terms of foot skill/ball control/passing out of the back vs. boys has to do with the different destinations for top players. NCAA men's soccer is a huge step down from men's professional soccer, and is in no way, shape, or form, considered a significant talent feeder for professional soccer leagues here or abroad. Granted, collegiate men's players can and do end up playing pro, but it's not like it is for women. NCAA women's soccer, on the other hand, IS the primary feeder for professional women's soccer (at least in the US, where the women's game has been ahead of other countries because of Title IX and our comparatively progressive view of women and sports). This is a problem because in college sports, four years of constantly rotating player personnel and coaches getting fired for losing games means that ain't nobody got time to teach tiki-taka and possession ball when it's a whole lot easier to just recruit a GK with a cannon for a leg and a forward with sprinter speed and play it long all day long. In this respect, I compare women's soccer to college football. When HS football was centered around the run game and playing wish-bone option offense, there was no sophistication in teaching youth quarterbacks, so the college game reflected that. Now that big money is spent on developing young QB's, the college game is much more pass oriented. College coaches in any sport really don't have time to teach and develop anything. Their job is to win right now. And in soccer, that means recruit big, fast athletes and play direct. So the US women's game reflects that reality. It takes a huge, concentrated effort at the youth levels to try to reform that, but even then it's more the tail wagging the dog because 90% of parents putting their girls in elite club soccer think there's a college scholly at the end of the road. So that destination doesn't really reward training GK's for advanced passing and distribution skill. For boys at the elite level, it's a whole different story because at the pro level, a keeper with great foot skills makes a difference and you're looking at developing a player for the next 10-15 years of their career vs just 4 for a college women's keeper.