Yes, the GDA was all wrong and full of shit, so true. I remember sitting down with my 8th grader who was so torn with going for the gold. Should I give up HSS, social life with all my new pals ((telling the girls at school their not good enough for her is not good, moo)) and go for the GDA and the hype? I sat down with her and told her the truth. The odds of making an actual YNT team or real camp was .01, unless you had direct access to the pick or had Doc in back pocket. I had neither so she had to be better than Rodman, Turner, Shaw, Jackson or Thompson to get the call. I had to be honest with my baby. We both saw Rodman, Turner, Jackson, Thompson, Shaw and a few others up close and how hard it would be to pass them. Their all very gifted players. The choice was made to play HSS and look to play a few games in the SCDSL. What rubbed me and my kid was the BS waivers. You see, at the very last minute, some girls who had rich daddy's got waivers to do both, instead of a "waive goodbye." Deza will not move an inch because he's a real coach. The other Doc I dealt with was the biggest liar and fraudster in soccer. He or someone got waivers to make everyone happy. You know, have your cake and ice cream.Exactly...so the club should be agnostic re playing HS. Many players LOVE playing HS. Others don't have an interest. Let players and families decide what they want to do without repercussion or hints that it is disfavored. The DA rule was wrong. If Surf is discouraging, even ever so slightly, that is just as wrong and unfortunate. But we already know they're not a player/family-centric club. So, no surprise.
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