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From the article, US soccer has spent $20M on NWSL since 2013, spends $1M annually to run it and $1.7M to subsidize salaries. I think any rational read of that is that US soccer has spent millions funding the development of the female game in the US. It may not be where you want them to spend it, but that's immaterial. US teams cares about the NTs, youth and senior, not the youth game except indirectly. So they care about the 0.01% or something like that.Owner funding and player development money are separate and distinct. Obviously, one is money for owners and the other is money for players.
The path to a NT spot is via the national pyramid in every country. You start at the bottom and work your way up. If you are good enough, you will be spotted / scouted by a better team and/or get opportunities. In the US the best players play in the best leagues (locally), which generally on the girls side is ECNL or GAL - there may be an odd state that doesn't offer that. US soccer have local scouts but they can't practically get to every game, so they will hit the big ones and rely on their local network for players to watch etc. To evaluate a player, you need to see them against the best talent available, so for girls that would be ECNL or GAL.
If you want to be outside that, then that's your call, but don't complain if that closes doors because you are closing them, not anyone else.