MA0812
SILVER
Justify?? I don't think so! Everyone needs to take ownership of their actions and that also includes the league. If a parent or coach put hands on anyone that's not acceptable and is a battery charge. Agree with you 100% there. However, if the league isn't ensuring they have the right skill set managing the game, that lands in their hands hence mutual ownership. Control what's yours to control. Neither side is immune. That email was very emotionally one sided. This wasn't an isolated incident to the game your post references. In the game I saw the ref and ar actually stepped as far away as they could from 14 year old girls getting into a hair pulling scuffle and did nothing. Not a word said as it was happening. League officials had to run onto the field the get in the middle of it. It escalated to that point by taking zero action. Justifying....... Yea I don't think so.Seems like you want to justify some bad behavior. Hopefully the parent who had the ref in a headlock & the coach who harassed the young ref were arrested
There is should definitely be mutual ownership for those scenarios described. Parents, coaches, and players all have a code of conduct they need to adhere to and that behavior cant be condoned but leagues have to also take ownership of their product which includes venues, refs, etc. No excuse for that stuff but the leagues have to do a better job at grading/rating refs if that's one of the drivers in the email. There is zero recourse for those who invest thousands into the product. Once a kid gets hurt due to a foul or from an altercation its too late to say we are dealing with the refs. Hopefully that level setting isn't just directed to those on one side of that equation but a reflection in the mirror of how to improve the product for all involved. Police yourself before you attempt to police others. Parents be the example!