I remember for years seeing parents and players U10-U13 wearing Stanford, North Carolina, UCLA, USC, Virginia, and whoever else was one of the top teams in the country. I always said during those ages if you asked a parent or player where do you plan on going to school? Almost all said a top 10 program. It's no wonder every year when our daughters get to HS age and start the recruiting process parents and players are I'll prepared for the reality of how difficult it is to play women's college socccer, only 9% make it and only 2% make a D1 school. So if your daughter is one of the 9% who play college soccer or the 2% that plays D1 congrats on an incredible accomplishment and if your daughter is one of the 91% that don't make it for whatever reasons injury, burn out, or never got recruited you are in the overwhelming majority.
http://www.scholarshipstats.com/soccer.html