You have gotten some good and bad advice so far. Here is what I have learned from your posts:
- She was the 3rd or 4th best goal scorer on the team.
- She is a 2006 (aka 10 year old).
- She played AYSO last year.
- The coach thinks she should play on the lower division team.
- She has weaknesses (which you appreciate).
- She had filled in for other positions when players were injured.
Ok. As yourself this: Do you trust that the coach/club/system is designed to promote development of the players? If yes, put your ego aside and let the kid play with whatever team the coach believes that she is best suited. If no, leave for a coach that you think is going to help
develop your player to play ALL positions on the field (except for maybe goalkeeper).
My qualifications are: E-Licensed Coach with 10+ years coaching both rec and club. Grade 8 Referee. Parent of a 2003 GK who was on a Flight 3 2003 team and this year will be playing up on a Flight 2 2002 team. I've been around and look at this from multiple perspectives.
First, you are making a huge mistake if you think "goals" scored is a factor in anything. What the coach should be looking at is:
- Does she have the speed and agility to compete at the higher level next year?
- Ball skills: How is her first touch? Dribbling? Escape moves?
- Passing: Does she connect her passes for her age?
- Awareness: Does she know her position AND the positions of her teammates? Does she anticipate properly?
- Defending: Can she defend? Delay? Use her body and feet appropriately?
- ... and about 20 other items/categories.
Who cares if she scored goals? (except for the parents). This is the farthest thing from my mind for a 10 year old, its irrelevant because goal scoring really only should happen when the kids are in the right position. Give me 20 good shots at goal that are saved then 20 goals due to GK or defender mistakes. She is 10.
Your goal SHOULD be to put your kid in a program that is going to help her develop into a
complete player. She may be a flight 2 forward but a Rec level defender. Send her to flight 3 so the coach has the luxury to move her around and develop her into a complete player ... you know ... the kind of player that College coaches look for.
You stated: "
Her game doesn't translate well in a tryout as she plays very unselfishly and would rather make the right play than to look for her own shot or play." Are you kidding? This is precisely what competitive coaches are looking for. Those small sided games and drills they play at tryouts are all about watching the kids that have an excellent first touch, find their teammate, make the appropriate pass (to space or to the feet) based on the defense, and are unselfish. Coaches are looking for balls skills, tackling skills, speed, agility, and attitude of both the player (and the parent).
Finally, any club that automatically puts kids on a team because they were there last year is a "loser" club. Kids should be put on teams that will allow that player to develop and succeed. I have seen time-and-time again that kids are put on teams because they were there last year, only to see that kid fall farther behind because of a variety of factors (puberty hasn't kicked in or it did with a vengeance, weight (too little or too much), or just the short draw of the straw when it comes to height and speed.