Yes up in the thread we were talking about this. The Biden admin irs cracked down on the supposedly tax free income. The higher letter leagues, which others here have noted get the better refs, rely on refpay which automatically tracks payments and issues tax forms. The higher letter leagues also require games to be recorded by veo, which means there is an official record of any outright corruption. It appears there may be a loophole in SoCal league still going on where refs get paid cash. I gotta say looking back on it the ref horrors I have seen were in calsouth/socal/tournaments including very high level ones. I have yet to see something truly egregious at the mlsn or ea level though of course even there I’ve seen errors. High school has also tended to be better though in my own experience I’d put it between the 2 other groups.Referee's are actually well paid in SoCal soccer, especially given that most of their income is tax free. SoCal soccer league referees make approximately $60 an hour in cash. What you can do is make sure your club requests tax documents from the ref organization at the end of the season to keep this in check.
AYSO is volunteer but the rest of SoCal club/academy scene is paid.
Also dont forget SoCal has a huge adult league to where these referees have the opportunity to earn a very healthy living. To put it into perspective, working weekends and 1 night a week a CR is capable of earning upwards $1000 a week tax free. This is over 50k a year in cash or put in another way the equivalent of 70k a year but only working 2.5 days a week.
And to quantify this i am not just throwing random numbers out but refereed through college working some evenings and nights a week and was able to make close to 35k a year, 20 years ago, when i was just paid $27 to 40 as a solo CR as opposed to $66 now.
My son was one year on an interlocking gk system on his letter league team. It meant he had to sometimes had to cover the older b teams games. I didn’t realize it til you mention it but yeah there was a distinct shift in the tenor of those games. Parents were also crazier. It’s a truism that the younger & lower level you go the worse the parents get.