That’s not really true. I follow Sevilla regularly and you see the ball over the top attempted (not executed) at least 10 times per game. You see it even more in the epl. It doesn’t need to just come from a gk punt but as dad and I discussed From a mid chipping it over. Yeah Barcelona doesn’t do it as much…they prefer the thru on the ground which is much harder to execute.I also think this is directly related to how we are coaching in the US. Remove boot ball and focus on decision making / possession like the rest of the world, much of this goes away. Soccer in the US is pretty abysmal even at the highest levels.
the reason you see it more in the boys youth game is they don’t have three skills to counter it. The first is the drop and counter: 1 player moves to head the ball and 3 of the rest of the back line drop to cover (there’s a YouTube on this skill). Lower level teams struggle to even keep their back 4 unified. But what’s really hard is moving into this position in anticipation and it requires practice…my kid is 13 and I’ve only seen 1 boys team execute this in anticipation to shut down the other side from doing it…the lafc academy team…and even then the other side tries it because they figure the other side might not stop it
the second is the step command to force a striker waiting on a foot race into an offside position. At 13 the keepers on the more advanced side are still yelling “back” and sometimes being ignored by their back line. It requires a high tactical knowledge by both the defensive line and the keeper of where and most importantly when to step, as well as a full ref crew that’s decent to actually see the subtle off side
the final thing you need is a keeper to sweep and not withdraw prematurely to cover goal. It makes the area you can put balls over the top very small. Only about 1/2 the mls keepers my sons age are actually sweeping (it’s one of the last skills to be learned because there’s so much else, hard to practice, and many gk coaches don’t know how to coach it or assume the team coach will cover it). Of those 1/2 many are struggling with withdrawing prematurely to their line to cover goal v the space (keeper traumatic stress syndrome from all the balls banged over their heads when they were younger into goal).
I dont know if it gets better as they get older because we aren’t there yet. Maybe teams get better at the thru ball on the ground but it’s not as deadly because as I said most keepers my sons age are routinely practicing how to deal with those and all the gk camps cover it. If you want to get there quicker what you really need is academy style practices like they do in Europe: practice 5 days a week for several hours a day. But that would mean even more headers in practice so they don’t happen on the field. I can tell you from dear cousins experience, Spanish tiered rec has the same problem.